I am very thankful that my son’s death brought many people to us
in solidarity of love, even people who were estranged from us,
some who never seemed to want to include us in their lives, and
some who even hurt us in the past, were touched by our grief and
the thought of losing our son in tragic death. I am thankful
that a death triggered such love and brought people together,
and I hope it will keep us together. But, a question we all need
to ask ourselves is “why couldn’t it be enough that GOD’S SON is
the great unifier?” Are we more touched by the death of our son
than the death of God’s Son? We should be brought together by
the death of people we share a common love with, but there
should be no greater common love to share than the common love
shared in the death of God’s Son on the cross. THIS is the death
that should bring us into the fellowship of the gospel of Jesus
Christ. We should love each other because He first loved us to
His death and gives us real hope in His resurrection.
We have reasons in a loved one’s death to feel the pain of loss,
and to be grateful for so many things we share. Death reminds us
that some things are not as important as we tend to make them,
but Jesus’ death is about God’s love, His heart, His desire to
unify us. Let the love shown in sympathy move us to think more
about valuing each other because God valued each one enough to
give His Son for us. Let us never allow God’s Son to have died
in vain for us! This is our greatest desire in view of the
heart-breaking loss we have experienced. Please unify with us
around God's Son!
Other
Articles by Terry W. Benton
Holding Grudges
It's Just Me
Extremist Cult
Subjective Spirit Leading
These Things Became Our Examples
The Pharisee Shield
Review of Radical Restoration Chapter
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