In the
epilogue of his book, Who Is My Brother?, F. LaGard Smith publishes his
letter to Max Lucado containing his replies to Lucado’s book, In the
Grip of Grace. Following the letter, brother Smith writes: “Having now
myself gone public through the pages of this book, and having written my
own letter of reply to Max, I invite similar responses from any who
might wish to continue the dialogue. The crucial issues raised in this
book need all the collective attention we can give them. Nothing but
good can come from an honest, open searching of the Scriptures on the
nature and boundaries of Christian fellowship” (254).
I
applaud the spirit these words express. It is good for brethren to
discuss ideas and argue their differences in an honorable and brotherly
way. Accepting brother Smith’s invitation, I offer this article in
response to his discussion of five levels of fellowship. He affirms that
there are five categories of fellowship, which he discusses in chapters
5-9.
Universal Fellowship: The Family of Man
The first level of fellowship, discussed in chapter 6, is that which
exists among all humans. We all are descendants of Adam and are brothers
and sisters in the family of man. We share the human experience, render
aid to one another, and participate with fellow humans in various
endeavors of common interest (e.g., PTA). As Christians, we are
concerned for the spiritual well-being of our fellow humans, and we seek
to lead them to Christ.
There is little with which I would take issue in the discussion of
universal fellowship. Certainly there is a bond and a relationship that
all humans share. This relationship is a kind of fellowship, but it is
not the kind that is described in the Scriptures. The term is used in
the Scriptures to describe the relationship of those who adhere to the
declarations of the apostles (1 John 1:3).
Faith Fellowship: Like Family
Chapter
7 discusses a level of fellowship that the author describes as “faith
fellowship.” This is fellowship with those who believe in Christ but
have not been biblically baptized. This level of fellowship is higher
than “universal fellowship,” but it falls short of “in Christ”
fellowship (to be discussed later).
Brother
Smith says that these unbaptized believers are not “family,” but they
are “like family.” The description, “like family,” is not identical to
Ketcherside’s “brothers in prospect,” but it does have a similar ring to
it. Explaining this description, he writes, “In virtually every way they
think and act as those in the family would think and act” (106). Really?
Do they think and act as those in the family? Their thinking utterly
rejects what Jesus said to do to be saved as well as the need for
scriptural authority in religion, and their actions in worship and
service to God are not governed by his word. Such thinking and acting is
certainly not appropriate for the family of God.
I was
surprised to find that our brother uses the incident recorded in Mark
9:38-41 to provide a scriptural basis for “faith fellowship.” John
reported that he and the other apostles had seen a man casting out
demons. They had forbidden him to do so “because he followeth not us.”
Jesus corrected John’s error. The fact that the man was not among those
traveling in Jesus’ immediate company was no reason to forbid him to
perform miracles in the name of Jesus. This man was not comparable to
those who are involved in unscriptural religious systems. There is no
hint that he rejected any portion of divine truth or was involved in any
false religious activities.
Brother
Smith believes that we should appreciate and value unbaptized believers.
Indeed, we may benefit from some of the accomplishments of those in
religious error, but our brother makes some comments that both astound
and appall me. Read his words and think: “Globally, it is hard to
overestimate the good that has been done by Anglican and Roman Catholic
missionaries in civilizing pagan cultures. (Their notorious errors and
excesses pale when compared to the good done.)” (109). I am not able to
comprehend how a man of LaGard Smith’s knowledge could make such an
assertion. These false religious systems teach errors that lead souls
away from Christ and into the eternal agonies of hell. Does that
horrible fact pale when compared to the material good that they have
done. Is the fact that they lead souls to eternal damnation outweighed
by the fact that they have civilized some cultures?
Expressing his appreciation for the fellowship he enjoys with unbaptized
believers, brother Smith writes: “I recently shared with my colleagues
on the law school faculty my distress at having come to the conclusion
that I had more of a spiritual bonding with a visiting professor who is
Catholic than I have with some of my colleagues who are baptized members
of the Lord’s church” (113-114). The author thus reflects his assessment
of the law professors at Pepperdine. I am thankful that I have through
the years enjoyed association with more spiritual brethren.
Extolling the spirituality and commitment of certain unbaptized
believers, brother Smith writes of the edification he receives from his
fellowship with them. I have a different viewpoint. Brother Smith is
talking about people who profess faith in Christ but reject his
conditions for salvation, teach others to reject those conditions, and
engage in human religious practices rather than those that are divinely
revealed. I am not even comfortable calling them believers when they do
not believe what the Lord has taught us to do to be saved. I do not
share with them a common faith and I do not consider myself to be in
fellowship with them. I commend them for their zeal, but they and I are
going in different directions. Despite brother Smith’s talk of their
devotion and commitment, their devotion and commitment have not been
sufficiently strong to lead them to reject their human doctrines and
religious systems and be guided by God’s word. When people renounce
fundamental truths of the gospel and vigorously oppose faithful saints
who teach those truths, I do not consider them to be “like family.”
“What fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what
communion hath light with darkness?” (2 Cor. 6:14).
“In Christ” Fellowship: The Extended Family
This is
the fellowship we have with all who have been scripturally immersed. It
includes those with whom we have serious doctrinal differences and those
who have gone into sin. It is true that these are brethren in God’s
family. Nevertheless, we must not extend the “right hand of fellowship”
to those who teach doctrines that condemn souls or engage unrepentantly
in sin. We must not give the impression that we endorse their teaching
or conduct or that we regard them to be right with God (2 John 9-11;
Eph. 5:11). The Bible does not teach that the faithful are in
fellowship with those in sin (2 Cor. 6:14).
In his
discussion of this level of fellowship, brother Smith discusses those
who are baptized without understanding its significance. They should be
taught the true meaning of baptism, he says, but then they may be
regarded as brethren and given the right hand of fellowship. I believe
that in order for baptism to be biblical, it must be for the biblical
reason: the remission of sins (Acts 2:38). Being baptized without
understanding its significance is of no more value than eating the
Lord’s supper without understanding its significance. Repentant
believers who were baptized for the remission of sins are my brethren.
Conscience Fellowship: Close Family
Brother
Smith says that conscience fellowship “provides elbow-room for the
exercise of individual and collective conscience” (78). Certainly,
allowance must be made for differences of conscience in our personal
lives. However, we are not free to tolerate practices that are clearly
sinful. Our brother recognizes this fact, acknowledging that “there are
some doctrines too obviously ungodly to leave to others’ conscientious
understanding” (143). He mentions, for example, homosexual marriages and
“also heterosexual re-marriages that violate Jesus’ clear teaching”
(143). In fact, he avers, “Such obvious sin cannot simply be a matter of
individual or congregational conscience” (144).
Having
said that, however, brother Smith warns of the danger of confusing sin
with doctrinal differences. As I understand it, he believes that if
someone’s doctrinal belief leads him to believe that a remarriage is not
adulterous, then allowance should be made for his view. That puts the
matter on the level of a doctrinal difference rather than sin. He
asserts that we may be guilty of “accusing others of tolerating adultery
without acknowledging that, if the other person is right about the
remarriage not being adulterous, then there is no sin at all being
tolerated” (146). Brother Smith does not discuss whether he would make
the same allowance for those whose doctrinal beliefs lead them to
believe that homosexual marriages are acceptable. Those inclined to
accept his position would do well to consider this point. If the Bible
clearly condemns a practice, the fact that some brethren do not accept
that teaching does not make the practice any less sinful or any more
worthy of acceptance.
Brother
Smith also discusses differences among congregations due to diversity of
conscience regarding congregational practices. He says, “If the extended
family must at times be separated into enclaves of conscience
fellowship, it can never be at the expense of koinonia fellowship. We
must still care. We must still share.” This means “that, despite those
differences, we recognize and appreciate brothers and sisters in Christ
who are as much a part of the extended family as we are” (148).
Regarding the division over institutionalism, he states, “Unfortunately
what should have been a victory for conscience fellowship has turned out
to be a colossal defeat in terms of our attitude towards those on the
other side of the doctrinal fence” (150). Certainly, good attitudes must
be maintained and brotherly love must continue; nevertheless, those who
are involved in unscriptural practices cannot be regarded as faithful
saints, and we must not speak and act as though we regard them as such.
Congregational Fellowship: Immediate Family
This is
the fellowship among Christians who work and worship together in the
local congregation. Brother Smith discusses the blessings of such a
family relationship, but he also discusses the problems that sometimes
lead one to consider departing a particular congregation. Sometimes the
congregation’s activities are such that one has difficulties maintaining
a good conscience while participating. Our brother shares with us that
he has experienced that dilemma.
He has
already given indication of the flexibility of his conscience. In
chapter 7 he tells of attending a church in England and singing with an
instrument despite his opposition to the use of instrumental music in
worship. He consoled himself with the thought that everybody else there
was singing with the instrument, but he was singing without it (103). He
admits that this rationalization did not solve the problem and that the
use of instrumental music marred the worship; nevertheless, he continued
to worship with that church. We should not be surprised, therefore, if
his conscience allows him to remain in a congregation engaging in
activities he believes to be wrong. Indeed, our brother acknowledges
that he has long remained with a congregation that has posed many
questions of conscience.
Brother
Smith sets forth six questions to consider when one is determining
whether he should remain with a congregation. They are legitimate
questions worthy of sober consideration. However, regardless of how good
the questions are, one who is seeking to justify a particular course of
action can answer them so as to justify that course. The author says,
“Having struggled with these complex questions for many years now, I
have somehow managed to maintain a continuing, if rocky, fellowship
among brothers and sisters with whom I sometimes disagree almost as much
as I love” (165).
Our
brother believes that his remaining in the congregation despite his
strong disagreements with its practices has enabled him to be a part of
vital evangelistic work in his community. He writes, “It’s easy to be so
consumed with the problems of family fellowship that we forget our far
greater responsibility to bring others into the family” (165). One must
consider, however, into what are we bringing these converts? When we
baptize people, we should teach them to observe all our Lord’s
commandments (Matt. 28:18-20), not lead them into a congregation
teaching or practicing error.
In his
discussion of congregational fellowship, brother Smith acknowledges that
doctrinal differences may require two groups within the congregation “to
go their separate ways.” When such occurs, each group should respect the
conscience of the other and “continue to respect each other as fellow
Christians doing their very best to follow in the steps of Christ”
(166-167). He has more to say later in the chapter about our attitude
toward congregations engaging in practices contrary to our conscience.
He writes that “we must nevertheless honor the collective conscience of
each and every other congregation” (172) and that we have no biblical
right to ostracize them (173). Yet, he says that we should seek to teach
them what we believe to be the truth.
In
considering our attitude toward such a congregation, we must remember
this: When a congregation is engaging in unscriptural activities, it is
not just one individual practicing his personal conscience. The
leadership is leading the whole congregation to believe and practice
error. In addition, it is binding those unscriptural practices on all
who would become a part of that congregation. The congregation’s
message is, if you do not join with us in these practices, you may not
be a part of us. Even though we love them, we cannot be tolerant of
their propagation of error. Far more than individual conscience is
involved.
Brother
Smith’s discussion of our attitude toward such congregations leaves me
somewhat unclear as to the practical applications. Does “ostracizing”
them mean that we make it clear that we regard them as unfaithful? In
order to respect their collective conscience and avoid ostracizing them,
must we announce the activities (Gospel Meetings, Vacation Bible
Schools, etc.) of congregations we believe to be teaching and practicing
error? Or if one of the elders or the preacher were an excellent song
leader, would we ask him to lead singing in our Gospel Meeting? Such
would surely give the impression that we regard them as faithful. Would
brother Smith apply these principles to the congregation consisting of
homosexuals and upholding homosexuality? If not, why not?
Conclusion
There
is some good material in brother Smith’s book, but the purpose of this
article has been to briefly explain what he means by the five categories
of fellowship and to point out some views I believe to be in error.
Fearful of misrepresenting my brother, I have diligently endeavored to
be fair and accurate in dealing with what he has written.
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