Anyone
who thinks that the Bible is chauvinistic or prejudiced against women
has just not been reading it. Some of the highest marks of praise in the
book of God are ascribed to women. Esther is said to have “found favor
in the eyes of all who saw her”
(Esther 2:15).
Ruth is called “a woman of excellence”
(Ruth 3:11).
And what better commendation could be given than what is attributed to
Tryphaena and Tryphosa, thought to have been twin sisters in the church
at Rome: “workers in the Lord”
(Rom. 16:12).
Women were not just footnotes along the path of history; they left
footprints to be followed.
One
woman who certainly fits that description is Mary, the mother of Jesus.
She, too, is paid a flattering compliment when Elizabeth, her cousin,
calls her “blessed among women”
(Luke 1:42).
This is not an endorsement to worship Mary, to elevate her to a position
that people in her own generation did not place her. But neither is it a
prohibition to neglect studying her at all or to pretend she is not
mentioned alongside other great women of the Bible. We should want to
know what it is that makes Mary so blessed.
She was chosen to deliver the Deliverer. God
had already brought forth a nation from the womb of a barren woman,
Sarah. Isaiah prophesied that He would also bring forth a Son from the
womb of a virgin
(Isa. 7:14).
Because Mary kept herself pure and had not given in to sexual temptation
even once, she was a fit candidate to fulfill the promise. Her innocence
is further seen in her words spoken to the angel after learning of the
task God had chosen for her. “Behold the bond slave of the Lord; be it
done to me according to your word”
(Luke 1:38).Who
knows what plans the Lord has in mind for your life? When you make
righteous decisions, you place yourself in a better position to be used.
Not only that, you will be more equipped to serve when the time comes.
Mary was chosen for a special purpose. But she was chosen because she
had made up her mind to make good choices. Be it done to me and you.
She was a good mother to a perfect Son. Can
you imagine being separated from your child for three days, not knowing
their whereabouts? That’s how long it took for Joseph and Mary to find
their twelve-year old Jesus when He stayed behind in Jerusalem. Upon
finding him in the temple, it was His mother who said to Him, “Son, why
have You treated us this way? Behold, Your Father and I have been
anxiously looking for You”
(Luke 2:48).
While she did not understand Jesus’ response that He had to be about His
Father’s business, she still “treasured all these things in her heart”
(Luke 2:51).
These were the memories that brought her great joy and pride as a
mother.
Children have a way of reminding us what is most important in life. They
are not attracted to the same things that distract adults. They could
care less about money, fame, or power. What they seek is much more
simple, much more valuable. Mary may not have understood everything
about her Son. She did, however, seem to understand that she had a
special One. Oh, that every parent would treasure their own children
this way.
She watched her Firstborn bear His cross. The
virgin birth was not the only prophecy in which Mary took part. When she
and Joseph presented their baby Boy in the temple, the prophet Simeon
spoke of things that the Child would do and have done to Him. And he
said to Mary, “a sword will pierce even your own soul”
(Luke 2:35).
Such was the case when the soldiers pierced the hands and feet of her
Son. Judas betrayed Him. Peter denied Him. “They all left Him and fled”
(Mark 14:50).
But among those “standing by the cross of Jesus”
(John 19:25)
was His mother. She was faithful to Him until death, even the death of a
cross.
Quitting is easy. It requires no courage, no conviction. It allows you
to shut your eyes to something that you would rather not see. But when
the events of life turn against you, you don’t turn away from the Lord.
You draw closer to Him. Real faith says, “I may not understand why this
is happening, but I believe God can cause something good to come out of
it.” Mary was rewarded three days later. How long are you willing to
wait?
Indeed,
Mary was “blessed among women.” But she need not be the only one. After
listening to Him teach on one occasion, a woman in the crowd shouted to
Jesus, “‘Blessed is the womb that bore You, and the breasts at which You
nursed.’ But He said, ‘On the contrary, blessed are those who hear the
word of God, and observe it’”
(Luke 11:27-28).
Let such be the calling of every woman and every man who chooses to
follow the Son.
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