An
irritable brother who always kept some grievance or issue loaded, called
a meeting with the preacher and the four elders of the local church.
He leapt
right into his complaint, arguing that all five brethren made a good
living, drove late model cars and lived in nice homes, yet, he argued:
"You don't ever share your good fortune." His audience listened
patiently and then after the outburst, one of the elders said: "How do
you know we do not share?" There was no answer. Apparently the agitated
brother assumed they didn't, or wanted to believe they were miserly. The
elder calmly explained, putting an end to the event: "God does not
expect us to prove to you or to anyone the extent of our benevolence. In
fact, the larger amount of one's benevolence will not be known on
earth." In support of this, he read
Matthew 6:1-4,
and the meeting ended.
The story
illustrates, among other things, a common misunderstanding of individual
benevolence. The purpose is not to satisfy witnesses, elicit the
applause of men, or prove anything to detractors. One's sharing ought to
be so private and unpublicized, when the right hand gives, the left hand
has no idea. It should be as Harriet Beecher Stowe once wrote of someone
she believed had the spirit of Jesus. She said of this person, that "He
had a habit of quiet benevolence," doing more good silently than was
common of most people in their public charity. {Life and Letters of
Harriet Beecher Stowe, 1897}
I read a
few years ago of a mystery unfolding in the world of college
fund-raising. "During the past few weeks, at least nine universities
have received gifts totaling more than $45 million, and the schools had
to promise not to try to find out the giver's identity," (AP, April 16,
2009). I have no idea how this story developed; it was not, to my
knowledge, followed up with additional reporting (except perhaps to the
IRS). It may turn out that some individual or group of individuals are
engaged in quiet benevolence, determined to avoid the typical praise of
public, ostentatious giving.
Are you a
quiet giver? There is rich spiritual value in this kind of giving. Value
for you and the recipient, having this truth connection: "with such
sacrifices, God is well pleased,"
(Hebrews 13:16, see also Matthew 6:1-4).
Other Articles by Warren E. Berkley
There Is A Higher Standard
Reactionary Apostasy
God Said Sing
Why I Pray