Have
you ever had a discussion where the truth seemed more confusing than the
lie? If you have, you know that awkward, discombobulating feeling that
arises because something you have believed for an extended period of
time—even a lifetime—has proven to be false. It can be quite
overwhelming.
It is
natural that your instinctive response is defensive, even hostile. "Who
do you think you are?" and "How dare you judge me?" are phrases on the
tip of your tongue. In the heat of the moment, you might even
rationalize, "That can't be right." Should you utterly reject the
"preposterous idea" while in your "confused" state of mind or should you
recognize this feeling of "confusion" as a mental flag that moves you to
openly reconsider a conviction, no matter how deeply held it might be?
We
often become emotionally attached to what we believe and it is rarely
pleasant to be proven wrong. This explains the initial defensive
response. However, the real quality of a heart is seen after the initial
emotional roller coaster ride ends. Will we stay "confused" by the truth
or will we embrace it, giving up the lie?
We can
fear and procrastinate like Felix
(Acts 24:24-25).
We can shoot the messenger, as we reject "his truth" and "gnash at him
with our teeth"
(Acts 7:51-60).
We can be moved by every wind of doctrine
(Eph. 4:14).
We can even remain in a perpetual state of "confusion" and have God
reinforce "our lie"
(2 Thess. 2:11-12)! On the other hand, we can simply receive the
"love of the truth"
(2 Thess. 2:9-10).
Momentary confusion at having a conviction disproven is understandable.
Choosing to reject the truth or remain "confused" is simply inexcusable.
What ever you choose, remember, your response will demonstrate the
quality of your heart
(cf. Matt.
13:18-23).
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