(2
Peter 2:7-8) "…and delivered righteous Lot, who was oppressed by
the filthy conduct of the wicked (for that righteous man, dwelling among
them, tormented his righteous soul from day to day by seeing and hearing
their lawless deeds) -- (NKJV)
Lot, the nephew of Abraham, is scripturally judged to have been a
"righteous man". That does not mean that he was a perfect man. He was
subject to weakness and made mistakes. This is clear from observing
both his pre-Sodom and post-Sodom days.
Lot's
Unwise Move
Lot made a grave mistake in judgment in choosing the well-watered plain
of Jordan as a place to raise his family
(Gen. 13:10).
The plain was as wicked as it was prosperous. There was nothing
inherently wrong in his choice. After all, Abraham had freely given him
the choice. However, as time passed, it proved to have been a poor
choice. His children grew up and married in that environment. Later,
when he attempted to save them from destruction, his sons-in-law thought
he was joking (Gen.
19:15). We are not told how many children Lot had in all, but
only two daughters escaped destruction. Even after their escape the
wicked influence of Sodom still surfaced in the two daughters
(Gen. 19:30-38).
One needs all the help he can get in raising his children in
righteousness. In the best of communities there are adverse
influences. To escape all evil influences one would have to go out of
the world. Yet, there are clearly communities where moral standards are
much worse than others. There are communities where there are some
opportunities to form friendships with morally upright people. There
are others where there are little or no opportunities to associate with
good people. One needs to understand that, wherever he lives, his
children are going to seek companionships, of their age group, from
among those available to them. The harder it is for them to find
someone of high moral character the more likely it is they will
associate with those of low character. So, anyone with children to
raise should seriously consider the general moral character of a
community before moving there.
It is this writer's judgment that preachers with school age children
should consider this before moving into a place so isolated from other
Christians that their children would have little or no association with
young people who are taught the same high moral standards that they want
their children to have. It is so easy to lose one's children to the
world in such an environment. Yet, one does not need to so shelter them
from the "real world" in which they must function one day that they will
not be able to cope. They must learn to be "children of God without
fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation"
(Phil. 2:15).
Lot's
Righteousness
Being surrounded by ungodliness does not mean that one has to just flow
with the current. He can be righteous in the midst of unrighteousness.
Lot maintained his righteousness while living in a city so wicked that
it has a vile repulsive sin named after it. Too often, we excuse our
sins and the sins of those we love by blaming outward circumstances.
True, it is easier to live godly when surrounded by godly people.
However, the real test of the genuineness of one's faith comes when he
must live godly when surrounded by ungodly people. Truly, Lot shined as
a light "in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation".
If asked, "What is the greatest weakness among brethren today?" I would
likely answer that it is our unwillingness to daily stand above the
crowd in moral, ethical and spiritual conduct. It is so easy to justify
compromises when we look at the world around us.
Lot's
Torment
The secret to Lot's maintaining his personal righteousness while
surrounded by unrighteousness may have been that he never got to where
ungodliness in others did not bother him. He was "oppressed with the
filthy conduct of the wicked" (v. 7). He "tormented his righteous soul
from day to day by seeing and hearing their lawless deeds" (v. 8). When
one gets to the point that another's sin does not bother him, then,
likely, it won't be very long until he will be comfortable with his own
sin. When we can hear and see lawlessness with passive indifference we
have reached a danger point in our own efforts to remain pure. When we
can hear vulgarity and profanity with hardly a raised eyebrow, it is
time that we checked our own spiritual health. When we can observe the
"works of the flesh" openly advocated and practiced in society without
becoming disturbed, it is time to be concerned about our own
relationship with God.
Lot's
Deliverance
Lot is held up to us as an example of how "the Lord knows how to deliver
the godly out of temptations and reserve the unjust under punishment for
the Day of Judgment"
(v. 9). One, such as Lot, living in the midst of a wicked
society faces many temptations. There is strong temptation to accept a
false deliverance - ease the struggle by giving in to, or at least
tolerating, sin.
One is tempted to partake of the pleasures of sin with his neighbors.
He is tempted to relax and not be so "up tight" about the wickedness
that he sees and hears. He is tempted to reach some sort of
accommodation whereby he can be at total peace with the world. After
all, he may rationalize, such things cannot be so bad or they would not
be so socially acceptable to so many people.
One
needs to understand that godly living is not freedom from temptation and
trials. In fact, because such godly living is not the norm for the
world at large it creates a conflict.
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