Several
years ago I brought a brother with me to meet a man who was convinced
that all churches were "filled with hypocrites" and because of that he
no longer attended anywhere. In my optimism I thought than an open Bible
would, in time, convince this man to change his attitudes and practices.
After three hours of patiently struggling with a man who displayed open
dishonesty, irrational anger and had plainly stated that he would never
change his mind, my brother pulled me aside and made a comment that I
never forgot. "Larry, my abilities and efforts are not highly valuable,
but they are more valuable than to be used like this! Brother, it is
time to go home.'
It was
not until I carefully studied how my Lord Jesus Christ worked with
people did I come to understand what I could and what I could not do in
my teaching of His word. What was the goal of Jesus when He taught men?
Surely He wanted to convert everyone He taught since He came to "seek
and save that which was lost"
(Luke 19:10).
But as I look into His ministry I find that a large majority rejected
His teachings (John
6:66). Rather than viewing Jesus' ministry as a failure, I needed
to learn what the primary purpose of Jesus' teachings really was. When I
learned that truth, I discovered how successful Jesus was and, as a
result, I was then able to properly gauge and evaluate my efforts in
teaching.
To
Expose Hearts
When
Mary brought Jesus to the Temple a few weeks after His birth, a prophet,
Simeon, foretold what the primary work of Jesus' ministry would be.
"Behold, this Child is destined for the fall and rising of many in
Israel, and for a sign which will be spoken against …that the thoughts
of many hearts may be revealed.
(Luke 2:34-35)"
This is precisely what Jesus accomplished as He taught others in His
ministry. More than just trying to have someone agree on a point of
doctrine, Jesus looked to open the hearts of those that engaged Him in
discussion. Once opened, a man could see his own heart and then make an
important choice. This one could then either be grieved at what he saw
and thus would allow Jesus, as the Great Physician, to operate on his
heart bringing the needed change or he could reject Him by slamming the
door of his heart in the face of our Lord.
Some
Cases in Point
From
this perspective let us look anew at some well-known exchanges in the
ministry of Jesus. The rich young ruler appeared to be the perfect
prospect to become a disciple of the Lord. He seemed to agree on the
"essential" doctrinal components, claiming to have kept God's written
word (Mark 10:17-20).
Jesus not only heard the words of this man, He also heard his thoughts.
He wanted this man to see them too. "Then Jesus, looking at him, loved
him, and said to him, "One thing you lack: Go your way, sell whatever
you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and
come, take up the cross, and follow Me." But he was sad at this word,
and went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions"
(Mark 10:21-22). Jesus opened this man's heart and then this man
chose to walk away. Jesus accomplished what he wanted to in this
exchange!
Look at
how Jesus turned the discussion from the place of worship to the
condition of the heart of the woman at the well
(John 4:1-26).
Seeing her own heart she came to know that Jesus was the Messiah and, in
turn, she left her water pot and quickly spread that news to others
(John 4:28-30).
She rejoiced at the work of the Great Physician and, in turn, sought as
many as possible to have their hearts opened by Him too.
Whether
it was a question, a direct comment, or a simple parable, Jesus
confronted his opponents time and again with the contents of their own
hearts! The parable of the Good Samaritan helped a very reluctant lawyer
admit who his neighbor was, and in that, he came to see the racial
prejudice that dominated his heart
(Luke 10:28-37).
We Must
Learn to Open Hearts
While
we cannot instantly see the contents of the hearts of others as Jesus
did (Luke 5:22),
we can, however, through wisdom, learn how to open hearts. Why do people
believe and act as they do? Even Pilate, through his experience, looked
beyond the empty lies of the Jewish Rulers to know that they were
motivated by envy when they attacked the Lord
(Mark 15:10).
From personal observation and insight you may come, over time, to know
the motivations of the ones you teach.
Several
years ago I learned that the best approach in studying with "Jehovah's
Witnesses" was to challenge their personal loyalty to their
headquarters, the Watchtower Society. At the beginning of the study they
claimed that the Bible alone was the guide of their beliefs, but by the
end of our studies I was able to show to them that this was not the
case. When their hearts were opened to this truth, one man cried like a
baby while another man, while screaming, threw me out of his house. In
both of these studies, hearts were opened and decisions made. I believe
that the Lord was pleased with both results
(2 Cor 2:14-17).
When to
End a Bible Study
A
lesson that took me years to learn was when to end a Bible study. In the
earlier example of the man that was dishonest and plainly proclaimed
that he would not change, I should have accepted that he, in fact, had
exposed his heart to me. His resounding answer was "No, I will not
follow the Lord." Indeed, it was time for me to move on.
The
Heart of the Matter
The
Pharisees would never accept any proof that Jesus was the Son of God.
Any approach to them at that level would bring endless disagreements and
arguments. Jesus knew why this was so, for these men in their hearts had
put relationships and position above everything else. Jesus said: "But I
know you, that you do not have the love of God in you … How can you
believe, who receive honor from one another, and do not seek the honor
that comes
from the only God?
(John 5:42-44)"
I have
known of men and women who destroyed their marriages through their own
immorality or had become bitter with another only to then make a jump
into denominationalism, liberalism or even agnosticism. Often they try
to put a spotlight on the inconsistencies of brethren and tenaciously
hold on to arguments that are easily answered. Why can't they see
through these empty beliefs? It is because these beliefs are a cover or
mask for the real reason for their newfound stand.
Speak
to the Heart
Look
again at your approach to teaching and make sure your focus is the heart
and not just the head. Peter, having made effective and essential
arguments, turned his message to the heart. "Therefore let all the house
of Israel know assuredly that God has made this Jesus, whom you
crucified, both Lord and Christ." Now when they heard
this, they
were cut to the heart, and said to Peter and the rest of the apostles,
"Men and
brethren, what shall we do?
(Acts 2:36-37)"
May the
Lord bless you in this dangerous but rewarding work in the opening of
men's hearts.
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