So, you
know what the first car mentioned in the Bible was, right? When the
apostles were all in one Accord… Ha. Well, I will say that no matter
whether you laughed at that or not, humor is a gift from God and should
be used as such (James
1:17). Our ability to laugh, be sarcastic, and simply be
light-hearted should be enjoyed and shared as the blessing God intended
it to be. However, as with all of God’s blessings, Satan has taken humor
out of its God-given role and perverts it to use against us. And he’s
doing a mighty good job.
Humor
as a Blessing
Used
correctly and thoughtfully, humor can be a powerful tool in many areas.
Proverbs 17:22
states that, “A joyful heart is good medicine, But a broken spirit dries
up the bones.” Humor can certainly be used to make a heart joyful, even
for a short amount of time. At the right time, it can be used to
brighten someone’s day and encourage them to lift their head when they
most need it, which we all need from time to time. While this may not be
a purely spiritual form of encouragement, it can certainly help us to
face our days with more joy and vigor as we seek to serve the Lord with
all the zeal we can muster.
Humor
can also be used to soften anger and avoid potential conflict with our
brothers and sisters in Christ.
Proverbs 15:1
tells us that “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs
up anger.” How many times have we snapped back at someone instead of
taking a moment to consider our response to annoyance or aggravation? A
well placed humorous comment can often help us to see the folly of our
own frustrations and avoid unnecessary conflict with our brethren and
those whom we associate with.
Humor
also can function as a powerful evangelistic tool. Paul urges the
Christians at Colosse to “Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward
outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be
with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you
should respond to each person” (Colossians
4:5-6). Humor naturally draws people closer to the one who makes
them laugh. If you’re meeting someone for the first time, and they’re
able to make you laugh right off the bat, you probably already feel
closer and more comfortable with that person. This sharing in laughter
can help to build trust and camaraderie in relationships, which is
fertile soil for the seed of the gospel.
Humor
as a Danger
Though
we can see where God has given us our sense of humor to help us through
hard times and help our relationships, it must not become a stumbling
block to us at the same time. First of all, humor must
never take
the place of the truth (2
Timothy 4:3-4)! Many of those who claim to proclaim the word of
God fill their lessons with little truth but with an abundance of
side-splitting anecdotes—which keeps an audience listening, but does
nothing for their souls. Once again, there is a balance here, because
when it’s used correctly, humor can help open hearts to the truth, but
it mustn’t push the truth out.
Satan
can also use humor to get us to be dishonest. The fool in
Proverbs
26:18-19 is
spoken of this way: “Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and
death. So is the man who deceives his neighbor, and says, ‘Was I not
joking?’” There is a place for being sarcastic and playing tricks on our
friends, but let us examine ourselves so that we don’t let our
merrymaking turn into sin. It’s easy to let a ‘white lie’ slip for the
sake of humor, but when we deceive someone legitimately and mar the
truth, God takes it as though we’re throwing “firebrands, arrows, and
death.” Don’t let it go too far.
Satan
also lets us use humor to avoid confrontation that
needs to
happen, such as confrontation with our own sin or problems that demand
our action. One thing I’ve noted among some peers in high school is some
of the funniest people are the people that are hurting the most on the
inside. Instead of facing their problems and solving them, they simply
laugh it off and hide under their humor to ease the pain—which
ultimately will never fix their problem. The preacher in
Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
tells us “It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a
house of feasting. Because that is the end of every man. And the living
takes it to heart. Sorrow is better than laughter, for when a face is
sad a heart may be happy. The mind of the wise is in the house of
mourning, while the mind of fools is in the house of pleasure.” Let us
use humor to comfort one another in sorrow, but not so far as to hide
from the reality of the problems that God lets us face.
Perhaps
the biggest problem I’ve seen among Christians in dealing with humor is
the way Satan uses humor to desensitize us to sin. Paul writes to the
Christians at Ephesus in
Ephesians 5:3-5,
“But immorality or any impurity of greed must not even be named among
you, as is proper among saints; and there must be no filthiness and
silly talk, or course jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving
of thanks. For this you know with certainty, that no immoral or impure
person or covetous man, who is an idolater, has an inheritance in the
kingdom of Christ and God.” These are serious words, and we must take
them seriously when we use words. It’s become too easy to joke about
things like drugs, alcohol, and homosexuality. Satan, through television
and movies, has used this tactic ruthlessly until we no longer gasp or
cringe or feel any kind of repulsion at the sin that is rotting millions
of souls all around us. Instead, we laugh. Remember the town drunk in
the Andy Griffith show? He was almost always found intoxicated, but he
did the ‘funniest’ things. In reality, that lifestyle would destroy him
and be something to mourn over, not laugh at. We must examine the things
we entertain ourselves with and make sure we’re not letting Satan
whittle away at our consciences!
May God
help each of us to see humor for the blessing and danger it is, and to
use it always to build one another up and to glorify our God!
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