“Take 
		heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by 
		them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven”
		(Matthew 6:1).
		
		Nothing 
		tests our character more than having to choose between motives. 
		When there is a good deed to be done, for example, our character is 
		tested: will we do it simply to glorify God or will we do it “to be seen 
		by men”? That is a hard choice — much harder than most of us are willing 
		to admit.
		Praise 
		itself is not evil, of course, but there’s no denying that it has the 
		potential to hurt us. Indeed, it’s a rare person who can receive more 
		than a moderate amount of recognition and not have his or her attitude 
		marred by it. That doesn’t stop us from wanting it, however. As Norman 
		Vincent Peale once said, “Most of us would rather be ruined by praise 
		than saved by criticism.”
		As for 
		our motives, it’s hard to be honest as to what they really are. The 
		desire to be noticed and recognized as having done something good can be 
		so subtle that it can be our real motive at times when we would say that 
		it isn’t. In a given situation, it’s difficult to see when the thing 
		that we really want is to be praised.
		Perhaps 
		it is stating it too strongly to say that we want “to be seen by men.” 
		But what about that word “recognized”? A little appreciative attention 
		is an intoxicating thing. Once we’ve experienced it, even as children, 
		it’s easy for that to become the payoff that we seek (be truthful now!) 
		in every transaction thereafter.
		The 
		needs of self, including the need to be appreciated, are not 
		unimportant, of course. But God has set up reality such that
		
		self’s needs are satisfied most fully when we put out priorities 
		elsewhere. Jesus said, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His 
		righteousness, and
		
		all these things shall be added unto you”
		(Matthew 6:33).
		So 
		let’s be very honest.
		
		Why do we do what we do for God? Do we serve Him as faithfully in 
		private as in public? If no one ever noticed or thanked us, would we be 
		content simply to know that God had been glorified? And if so, would we 
		then avoid the opposite sin: being privately smug, knowing that we are 
		“big” enough to do what’s right even though nobody appreciates us?
		“I 
		cannot say ‘Thine is the glory’ if I am seeking my own glory first” 
		(Anonymous). 
		 
		
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