Family.
There's something
warm and inviting about the word. It floods the mind with thoughts of
home and hearth, of fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters, aunts,
uncles, grandma and grandpa. It conjures memories — memories of
togetherness, of commonality, of all being in one place at the same
time. It calls to mind picnics, ball games, holidays spent with loved
ones. Family. It just says something special. And the thing it most
especially says is "together."
Together.
There is no such thing as
family without together. No matter how the word is used — whether in
regard to biology, or mathematics, linguistics, or physics — family
always suggests something held together by a common bond.
The church is the family
of God
(Galatians 6:10; Ephesians 2:19).
God is the Father, saints
are His children. We are referred to as "sons of God"
(Galatians 5:5-7).
There are things that
bind families together — things like common goals, common interests, and
even common struggles. The church is the same. All these things are both
recommended and common in the family of God. Worship brings the family
of God closer to the Father. Worship is filial (fatherly) devotion, an
attitude of reverential respect, of love and high regard for the one who
has given us life. When we direct our love toward our common Father, we
become stronger in both our devotion to Him and our devotion to one
another. We are told to "worship Him in spirit and in truth"
(John
4:24). While this
may refer to the attitude we are to have when we worship Him, I believe
there is more to it than that. I believe He means we should reach down
to the very depth of who we are and accord to Him the most reverent
feelings of that inner being. In the ultimate reality, worship is the
adoring reverence of the creature for the Creator, and that means our
most fundamental feelings of love and devotion must be extended to Him.
When that is the case, it is axiomatic that we also come closer to one
another.
Being together as a
family brings us closer to the Father. He is the focal point of our
assembling. When we sing together, we bring honor to His name. "I will
sing with the spirit and I will sing with the understanding also"
(1
Corinthians 14:15)
carries the same
responsibility as the worship to which we earlier alluded — there must
be a reaching down to the essence of who we are when we sing praises to
Him.
Colossians 3:16-17
begins with "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly," a sure
indication of the need for the deepest respect we can muster before we
even begin to sing praises to Him. Also, as we are told to teach and
admonish "one another" in songs, hymns, and spiritual songs, the command
closes with the enjoinder that we sing "with grace in your hearts to the
Lord." Worshipful prayers brings us closer to God. As we each come
closer to Him in our personal prayers and supplication, we come to be
closer to one another, praying to the same Father, seeking the same
blessings, extolling the same Savior. The Lord's Supper, served in the
assembly of the saints, brings us together so that we can "consider one
another to provoke unto love and good works"
(Hebrews 10:23- 25).
Worshiping together
promotes an intimate relationship with the family.
Family love is never
better or more to be desired than in the church of our Lord Jesus
Christ. Love is the divine mucilage, it binds us all together in Him
(Colossians 3:14).
That love originated in Him, and is radiated to us; we ought therefore
to radiate it to one another. "Beloved, let us love one another: for
love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth
God"
(1
John 4:7). There's
togetherness in that. Nothing brings us closer to Him than love for one
another, born of love for Him. It makes peace possible. It solidifies
unity. It emboldens hope. It gives security to a proper direction. It
makes motive high and noble. Furthermore, to love the brethren is to be
like the Father. "Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the
truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that
ye love one another with a pure heart fervently" (1
Peter 1:22). We
are brethren. We each belong to God our Father. Brethren love brethren.
The family together is a
beautiful sight. Think about the pictures you have seen of families
together — paintings, portraits, photographs — they all speak to
togetherness, to a common love, and to a common devotion to a common
father. The family together is what the church of our Lord is all about.
Let us be careful that we don't diminish its beauty by being derelict
and neglecting the family together. I love my family, don't you?
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