The primary definition of
“revisionism” in The American Heritage Dictionary of the English
Language is: “Advocacy of the revision of an accepted,
usually long-standing view, theory, or doctrine, especially a
revision of historical events and movements.”
Revisionism, as defined here, can
have a wide range of applications in a variety of contexts. The term
for a while was used within the Communist movement by conservatives
to describe efforts made to reform the movement–so widely so that
this usage found its way into many dictionaries as a second meaning.
It is sometimes used of efforts to rewrite history so as to make it
compatible with the “political correctiveness” of the present time.
The term would fit about any effort to revise any long held position
to make it harmonize with an updated version of the position. So, it
can be applied to giving biblical words and passages a slanted or
forced meaning or interpretation so as to make them harmonize with
what is perceived to be a more enlightened view. This is the way we
use it in this article.
Revisionism in any context is
usually born of a desire to make the “square peg” of an original
version fit into the “round hole” of a revised edition. In an effort
to harmonize the latest popular viewpoint with long-standing
positions, the revisionist usually questions whether the old “facts”
that was the basis of the old position were “facts” at all–so he
reshapes the old to fit the new.
I think I am seeing a disturbing
amount of revisionism among my own brethren.
Days of Creation
The Bible says, “In six days the
Lord made heaven and earth, and on the seventh day he rested and was
refreshed.” (Exod. 31:17).
Most any ordinary reader would
conclude that this is saying that God made heaven and earth in six
regular twenty four hour days–especially since the six work days for
Jews were six ordinary days (see v. 15). Then there is the language
of the Genesis account of creation. With each day of creation, the
account ends with “and the evening and the morning were the (first,
second, etc) day” (Gen. 1:5, 8, 13, 19, 23, 31). Without help one
would not get any idea other than that these days were ordinary
twenty-four hour days.
Why would one feel the need to have
them mean anything else? Would such an interpretation conflict with
other plain passages on the subject of creation? No. But it does run
head on with much of the scientific community’s theorizing about the
origin of the universe, the earth, and life. Hence many Christians,
not wanting to appear scientifically challenged, fall all over
themselves trying to find a way to harmonize the creation story with
the latest scientific theory of origins. Therefore, the six days of
creation are revised to allow for enough time for the universe and
man to have evolved into their present state by natural evolutionary
processes. So, these days must have really been “ages.”
One needs to understand that
scientific theories of the origin of the universe and life are just
that–theories. Theories based on the interpretation of data
gathered by the scientific community. That interpretation is often
tainted by a bias toward naturalism. These theories are constantly
being challenged, debated, and fine tuned within the scientific
community itself. The problem is that theory is accepted and
taught as fact within most of the academic community. Many
academics try to make anyone who questions the validity of their
scientific “facts” out to be some kind of backward ignoramus who
still thinks the earth is flat. Some brethren just cannot live with
that kind of stigma, so they are quite willing to accommodate the
day-age theory–either by accepting it outright or by accepting it as
a possibility. So, they are unwilling to challenge it when it is
taught.
Do you ask, “What harm can the
day-age theory do?” It undermines faith in the credibility of the
Bible as a whole. If we cannot depend on the obvious meaning of the
words describing the creation, then how can we accept anything else
so plainly stated with any degree of certainty? If we cannot accept
at face value and depend on the biblical account of the origin
of man, how can we depend on the biblical statements about his
destiny?
Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage
The Lord’s language on divorce and
remarriage seems rather straightforward at first glance.
But I say unto you, That whosoever
shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication,
causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that
is divorced committeth adultery (Matt. 5:32).
The Pharisees also came unto him,
tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put
away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them,
Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them
male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father
and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be
one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What
therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They
say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of
divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because
of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives:
but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever
shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall
marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is
put away doth commit adultery (Matt. 19:3-9).
And he saith unto them, Whosoever
shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery
against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be
married to another, she committeth adultery (Mark 10:11-12).
Whosoever putteth away his wife, and
marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her
that is put away from her husband committeth adultery (Luke 16:18).
One would think that language so
simple would not generate so much controversy. When I first began
preaching (a little over 50 years ago) most brethren did not find it
nearly as hard to understand what the terms used by the Lord
meant–though the teaching was not always applied consistently. But,
back then divorce was far more rare than it is now. It was almost
unheard of among brothers and sisters in Christ, at least in the
areas where I did my early preaching. You might find a case or two
here and there, but it was a rare thing. Now, it is just as rare to
find a congregation that does not have members who are divorced and
remarried. As the cases have increased so have the ways to try to
justify them. It has become increasingly hard for brethren to
accept at face value the language and terms used by the Lord in his
teaching on this subject. Applying the language as it is written
often has unpleasant consequences for those we love dearly and for
congregations who have to deal with it. So, we at times may allow
our emotions and sentiments to rule and conclude that the language
must not mean what it seems to say on the surface. So, we find ways
to redefine the biblical words and concepts so as to make them more
acceptable to the realities of modern society. Consequently, we are
hearing more and more ingenious but dubious ways to redefine words
and concepts affecting the nature of the institution of marriage.
Adultery Redefined
For years most of us have taught
that “adultery” means to “have unlawful intercourse with another's
wife,” as defined by both Joseph Thayer and W. E. Vine in their
highly respected lexicons. Or as The American Heritage
Dictionary of the English Languages puts it, “voluntary sexual
intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the
lawful spouse." So, it was generally understood that the reason one
who divorced his spouse and married another committed adultery was
because he was having sex with “a partner other than the lawful
spouse.” So, as long as they were doing that, they were “living in
adultery” and that repentance would not allow for their continuing
in that relationship.
Some are now redefining “adultery”
as “breaking the covenant.” Hence, the “adultery” in Jesus’
statements on divorce becomes just the act of covenant breaking and
not unlawful sexual intercourse. So, to correct this sin, one who
has divorced his/her spouse has to repent only of “covenant
breaking” rather than of “living in adultery.” Given this new
definition, brethren can justify one becoming a Christian (and
congregations accepting him) and continuing to live in the second
marriage because he only has to repent of having broken the
covenant. He may have married and divorced several times before
coming to the Lord. According to this revisionist definition, he
would only need to repent of and cease breaking covenants–rather
than ceasing to live with a wife who is not lawful for him to have
(cf. Matt. 14:4).
If this new found definition works
in one place, it should work in other places as well. The woman
caught in “the very act” of adultery (John 8:4) would have been in
the act of covenant breaking. One with “eyes full of adultery” (2
Pet. 2:14) or looking upon a woman to lust (Matt. 5:28) would only
be contemplating covenant breaking (maybe even a mental divorce) in
his heart. Who can believe it?
The Cause for Divorce
More and more I am hearing and
reading from brethren that there can be several lawful reasons for
divorcing a mate other than fornication. It is just that, if one
marries again, the cause of divorce must have been fornication.
Thus, one may divorce for multiple causes without sin–as long as he
remains unmarried. I have seen different lists of scenarios from
different people, where they think that divorce would be
lawful–without sin until the person remarries. All of these lists
have one thing in common, they present scenarios that pull at the
heart strings. But we are still faced with question asked Jesus and
his answer in Matthew 19:3-8.
Nowhere in the text is it indicated
that divorce for other causes is OK as long as there is no
remarriage–but rather the opposite is indicated. To the question,
“Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”
Jesus answers “from the beginning it was not so” in spite of what
Moses had allowed because of hardness of the heart. What was not
so? That one should divorce his wife. What God joined together man
is not to put asunder. What sin does one commit by divorcing his
wife for “just any reason”? The sin of divorce, which God hates
(Mal. 2:16).
Moses permitted divorce but Jesus made it clear that from beginning
it was not so. Nor is it so now. Note that it does not say that
Moses permitted divorce and remarriage, but merely divorce
and from the beginning it was not so. What was not so? For “you to
divorce your wives”–period. Only in verse 9, do we learn that there
is any exception to this as Jesus explains the additional
consequences of remarrying after divorce. It is here that we are
forced to conclude that there is one exception and only one
exception to the no divorce rule. Hardship and abuse cases that
might cause one to divorce another without fornication, though they
may be heartbreaking, do not change what Jesus said about divorcing
for “just any reason.”
Bypassing Civil Requirements
There was a time when we thought we
knew a marriage or a divorce when we saw it. But increasingly, I am
hearing from beloved brethren that, at least in some instances, the
civil aspects of divorce means nothing to God and therefore are
irrelevant to a “real” divorce as God sees it. I read at least one
suggestion that the little piece of paper (divorce paper where one
had been unjustly divorced) means nothing to God and that you may as
well blow your nose on it and throw it into the toilet. If civil
papers ending a marriage have no more value than that, then
civil papers beginning a marriage should have about the same
value. If not, why not? The idea seems to be that the civil
requirements relative to marriage or divorce are no more than
formalities to satisfy human law and have no bearing on the reality
of marriage or divorce in God’s eyes. Before we start disposing of
marriage licenses and/or divorce papers so freely, let’s back off a
bit and take a deep breath and think about the consequences of
bypassing civil and cultural requirements for marriage and divorce.
As a gospel preacher and former
elder, I have many times had to wrestle with problems created by
marriage and divorce. Therefore, I can understand the attractiveness
of this position after trying to help couples sort out messes into
which some find themselves. No one likes to tell an unjustly
divorced person that he cannot have the joy of a new marriage. But
because a view is attractive and seemingly solves some tricky
situations does not mean that it is the truth.
I believe all sides of this issue
agree that God does not sanction all civilly sanctioned marriages or
divorces. And that civil sanction alone does not make either
a marriage or a divorce acceptable to God. But, does that mean that
civil requirements are irrelevant to marriage and divorce in God’s
sight? Does it mean that civil matters are nothing more than
formalities to satisfy human law? Hardly.
Three God-ordained Institutions
Through the years brethren have
preached that there are three basic God-ordained institutions: The
Home (or Marriage), the State, and the Church. I still believe that
is good preaching. The first two are temporal given by God to
facilitate an orderly and civilized society for all men as long as
the earth stands. In other words, these two are God-ordained social
institutions for the temporal welfare and happiness of mankind.
Where there is a breakdown of either marriage or government, chaos
and a lack of common civility results.
The third, the church, is spiritual
and designed to minister to man’s spiritual needs and to prepare him
to live with God in the world to come. The Bible is more specific
and detailed about the religious activities of man and things
pertaining to “the church.” God alone determines what we can offer
in worship and service to him and has expressly authorized what is
to be done. The form of government (local/congregational), worship,
and work for the church are precisely laid out and they are the same
world-wide (cf. 1 Cor. 4:17; 7:17).
In ordaining “the powers that be”
and making them his ministers for good (Rom. 13:1-4), God did not
order a specific form of government for all places and times but
left that for the various societies and cultures to work out. While
I like the American model and believe that it is the best in the
world, it is not the only form ordained of God. Yet, there are
certain principles of righteousness to which God holds all nations
and their governments accountable (Prov. 13:34; 16:12)–without being
specific as to the forms of government for various nations of the
world. Citizens are told to honor and submit to the “powers that be”
in whatever the form adopted by their society. Since these civil
powers are ordained of God, their laws must be obeyed as ordinances
of God (Rom. 13:2)–except when it would cause one to disobey a
higher law of God (Acts 5:28-29).
The home or marriage is the oldest
of God’s social institutions. In the beginning God made man after
his image, male and female, and gave them the responsibility of
procreation (Gen. 1:27-28). They were given sexual desire to
facilitate this mission. He gave the same responsibility and desire
to the animal kingdom as described in the preceding verses–with a
marked difference. Man was to fulfil his mission and satisfy his
desire within the institution of marriage (Gen. 2:24). While those
of the animal kingdom satisfy their desire to mate with multiple
partners, man was made to live on a higher plane. God made him after
his image with intelligence and the capacity of make moral judgments
and gave him his word to guide him in those judgments. Man is to
satisfy his desire to mate only within the confines of monogamous
marriage (cf. Heb. 13:4)–anything else is fornication or adultery.
The wisdom of all of this has been borne out through the ages as we
have seen all the problems, heartaches and even disease that
promiscuous life styles have caused and the harm that broken
marriages have done to children.
While the Bible says much about
“marrying and giving in marriage” (cf. Matt. 24:28), it says little
about the specific procedures. It just states that they married.
When one takes into account all the Bible says on the subject he
should be able to see that procedures differed from place to place,
nation to nation, and culture to culture over the years covered by
biblical history. But, whatever the procedure, the time and the
place, the inspired writers called it marrying.
Nowhere is it indicated that
marriage was just a informal private agreement, but a “covenant”
(cf. Mal. 2:14)–a formally ratified agreement. The word (berit)
translated “covenant” means:
(1) covenant, alliance, pledge
(a) between men (1) a treaty, an
alliance, a league (man to man), (2) a constitution, an ordinance
(monarch to subjects), (3) an agreement, a pledge (man to man), (4)
an alliance (used of friendship), (5) an alliance (used of marriage)
(b) between God and man, (1) an
alliance (used of friendship), (2) a covenant (divine ordinance with
signs or pledges)” (Brown -Driver-Briggs Hebrew and English
Lexicon); a “compact. . . confederacy, confederate, covenant,
league” (Strong)–all of which require formal confirmation,
ratification or solemnization (Gal. 3:15).
The word for “confirmed” in
Galatians 3:15 is from “kuroo,” meaning “to make
authoritative, i.e. ratify” (Stong); “(1) to make valid; (2) to
confirm publicly or solemnly, to ratify” (Thayer, italics mine,
eob); “to make valid, ratify, impart authority or influence” (Vine).
The covenant to live together as husband and wife, like other
covenants, was formally and publicly ratified (ratification is an
essential element of a covenant) by whatever procedure dictated by
that society–thus one can read of various ways a covenant was
ratified in the Bible. Just as God has given certain commands and
principles to regulate civil government but leaves it to each
society to establish its form of government, so it is that after
giving the basic nature of marriage (a man leaving his parents and
joining himself to his wife and their becoming one flesh), it is
apparent from reading of marriage in the Scriptures that God left it
to each society, culture, or government to work out the specific
procedures for entering and ratifying the marriage covenant.
Just as each society has laws and
procedures for beginning a marriage and its ratification,
then each society has laws and procedures for ending the
marriage . We are obligated to obey the civil authority under which
we live in marriage and divorce just as we are in all other matters.
As previously noted, the civil laws are to be treated as ordinances
of God (Rom. 13:2).
When Jesus taught on marriage and
divorce, he did not preface it with an explanation of what
constituted a marriage or a divorce. He did not have to. Those to
whom he spoke knew when one had “married her” (Mark 6:17) and when
one had become divorced (Matt. 5:31) in their society. Neither of
these things was done in a closet. Both marriage and divorce were
publicly recognized as such by the societies in which the people
lived.
God does regulate and put limits on
what can be done in marriage and divorce in whatever society one
lives without binding a uniform procedure for all nations and
societies. He limits marriage to a man and a woman. He also limits a
couple to one marriage for as long as both lives (Rom. 7:1-4). If
either dies, the other is free to marry another. Jesus allows only
one exception to this limitation. One who has a spouse who commits
fornication has the option of putting the fornicator away and
entering into another marriage covenant without committing adultery
(Matt. 19:9).
How does a couple go about marrying?
Jesus did not say. The procedure is left to the society in which
they live. In our society it is generally done by getting a licence
and having the marriage solemnized by a civil or religious
“official.” Until this is done, it is not a marriage. I heard of a
Kentucky couple a few years ago who came down from the mountains
into the county seat, purchased a license and headed for Cincinnati
on their honeymoon. They were contacted and called back home to
complete the marriage by having it solemnized by a judge. They may
have been married in their minds, but not really until they met the
civil requirements of the state in which they lived.
What procedure must one follow in
“putting her away”? Again, Jesus did not say. Does that mean that
each person is at liberty to divorce by any procedure he might
choose? No. If marriage is a formally ratified covenant, thus a
matter of public record, then it follows that divorce also would be
a matter of public record. The manner of making it so is left to the
society in which one lives and may differ from society to society.
In Israel it was done by giving a bill of divorcement (Deut. 24:1;
Mark 10:4). In our nation it is done by petitioning for divorce and
having the divorce finalized by the divorce decree issued by a
judge. Without this there is no divorce.
I have a hard time relegating the
question of the role of civil powers in marriage and divorce to a
peripheral issue of the overall marriage, divorce and remarriage
controversy as some of my good friends are inclined to do. The civil
and societal aspects of the covenant and its ratification are at the
very core of what constitutes a marriage or a divorce. Marriage is
more that just a private agreement between a couple to be married
before God, it is a covenant–a formal agreement that requires
formal or public ratification.
While all “marriages” and “divorces”
are recognized as such by God, not all are approved by him. The
sacred text says that Herod had married his brother Philip’s
wife–not that he lived with her, or that he had apparently
married her, but he had married her (Mark 6:17). It was a
marriage and it was real. However, it was not lawful or in keeping
with God’s law. Even such unlawful marriages are still called
marriages by divine revelation.
One can dissolve his marriage by
divorce, but he cannot dissolve the bond by which the law of God
binds him to his first wife even though they may no longer be
married–hence God charges him with adultery when he marries another
(Rom. 7:1-4). Is it possible to be bound and unmarried at the same
time? Yes. Notice 1 Corinthians 7:10‑11, “And unto the married I
command, yet not I, but the Lord, let not the wife depart (divorce
or become unmarried, eob) from her husband. But and if she depart,
let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let
not the husband put away his wife.” She has but two options, “remain
unmarried” or be reconciled to her husband. Why? Because,
though she is “unmarried,” she is still “bound by the law” to her
husband (Rom. 7:2; 1 Cor. 7:39). Because of this she is not at
liberty to marry another without sinning against God.
Neither marriage nor divorce is a
private arrangement or mental act. If this revised version of
marriage and divorce becomes widely practiced it will throw society
into chaos. A couple out on Saturday night allows their passion to
get out of control–but believing sex is for marriage–could agree
under the stars and “before God” to be married in the back seat of a
car and they would be married “in the eyes of God” even if not in
the eyes of civil law. If civil law and cultural norms can be
bypassed, then why not? There would be no way for us to know who of
our neighbors were married or just committing fornication–after all,
the only proof we would have would be their word for it. How could
the church discipline fornicators–for they might be married “in the
sight of God” because they may have had a meeting of minds in a
mental wedding? Or if brethren see a married man, whose wife becomes
unfaithful to him, move out of his house and in with another woman
without benefit of civil divorce, how could they charge him with
adultery–he may have given his former unfaithful wife a “mental
divorce.” Or are “mental divorces” only available to a spouse who
has been wrongfully divorced?
Make no mistake about, the driving
force behind the revisionist teaching that unjust divorces granted
by civil powers are not really divorces, is the need to provide
justification for unjustly divorced parties to later remarry. From a
purely personal and sentimental point of view, how I could easily
wish this were so. There are people whom I love dearly who are in
that unfortunate position. How I wish there was a way that I could
conscientiously accept their position and tell them they were OK.
But my wishing it so, does not make it so. The facts have a way of
getting in the way.
There are several things that those
who believe one unjustly divorced may later mentally divorce the one
who had unjustly divorced him need to consider. If this second
divorce from this marriage can be just a mental act, why can not the
initial divorce from that marriage just be mental? If one catches
his wife sleeping around, why bother with the effort to get a
divorce the conventional way? Why not just mentally put her away
(it’s a whole lot less expensive) and then find another willing to
live with him and they mentally and/or verbally commit themselves to
each other as husband and wife and set up housekeeping–all without
bothering with the nuisance of courthouse papers. Why can a divorce
be mental only when a person has been unjustly divorced and not at
other times? Why does the mental rule apply only to the breaking of
marriages and not apply to the making of marriages?
Conclusion
Really, after all the arguments have
been made and all justifications have been exhausted, one will still
have to deal with the plain wording of the text that would require
help to misunderstand–whether or not we are always consistent in
applying it.
Whosoever shall put away his wife,
except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth
adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit
adultery (Matt. 19:9).
One would need help to make
“whosoever” mean only Christians and not aliens. Or to make “commits
adultery” mean “covenant breaking” rather than immoral sexual
activity. Or to make either divorce or marrying mean just mental or
private informal acts bypassing civil ratification.
When we wipe away all emotionalism,
verbal gymnastics and the “what-ifs” of extreme and unusual
circumstances, Christ’s teaching is not that hard to understand and
apply. If one divorces his wife for any reason other than
fornication, he sins by “putting asunder” what God has joined
together, whether or not he marries another (Matt. 19:6), then he
further sins by committing adultery when and if he marries again. He
also sins if he unjustly divorces and puts his wife in a position
where she commits adultery when she marries again (Matt. 5:32)–for
if anyone marries the divorced wife she (and the one she marries)
commits adultery. Nor is there room in these passages for a second
putting away of the person who is already “away” as a result of the
first “putting away.”
The only person, according to the words
of Jesus, who has a right to remarry is the person who has put away a
fornicator–providing the one he marries has a right to marry. That
should not be too hard to understand. Neither should it be hard to
understand that in any “putting away,” someone is doing the “putting
away” and the other is the one being “put away.” (Granted, there may be
in some rare cases a mutual putting away by agreement.) And that if
either the one who “puts away” (except for fornication) or the one who
“is put away” marries again he or she commits adultery. There is nothing
in the passages to allow for a post-fixed divorce–one where the one who
“is put away” later fixes things to make him/her the one “who puts
away.” How can one later “put away” the one from whom he or she has
already been “away” since the first “putting away”?
Brethren, let us put aside
sentimentalism and be content with what the text says and respect what
it does not say and quit this business of revising, redefining, and
complicating words and concepts to try to alleviate difficulties,
alleged inequities, and hardships that might be caused by applying the
text as written. Unless we do, besides violating Christ’s law, we may
contribute to social chaos by teaching people that they can marry or
divorce without the benefit of legal requirement and to say nothing of
further splintering of those who profess to be trying to follow the New
Testament order. We cannot afford either.
Edward O. Bragwell, Sr.
edbragwell@gmail.com
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