Before
any young lady marries a non-Christian, she should consider the
following problems which so often face the Christian in a mixed
marriage.
1.
Problems in attending services. She should ask
herself, "What will I do when my husband some Lord's day drives
away in the car at 9:15, leaving me with no transportation to the
service?" "What will I do when my husband announces that his company is
moving us to some distant community where no church of the Lord meets?"
The husband may not be as co‑operative as the young lady thought he
would be.
2.
Problems in
giving.
The young lady recognizes that if they are to reap bountifully,
they must sow bountifully. She loves the Lord and His work, and wants to
give liberally in support of it. Her husband, however, does not share
her convictions and interest. He feels that a dollar is plenty to give.
3.
Problems in training children. Yes, some have succeeded in
bringing up their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord
without the help of their companions. Eunice succeeded with Timothy.
Other good women have succeeded. But the influence of a father is great,
and many are the women who have not been able to overcome this influence
to see their children become Christians.
4.
Problems in overcoming the influence, of one's companion.
Marrying with the hopes of reforming one's companion is a dangerous
thing. Often the companion is lifted to a higher standard, but seldom to
the standard of a Christian. Instead, as the non ‑Christian's standards
are raised, the Christian's standards are lowered, so that the two meet
somewhere in between. The young lady should realize that the man whom
she marries
will be the greatest earthly influence on her life, and she should ask
herself, "Will this man help me to go to heaven?"
5.
Emotional problems. The problems faced in life are great, but the
emotional problems faced in death may be greater. Recently a godly
woman, having just received word of her husband's death in an automobile
accident, cried, "Why couldn't it have been me or one of the children,
for my husband was not ready to die?"
The
young person reading this is probably thinking, however, that she will
convert her husband. She may be able to do so, but statistics show that
her chances really are not very good. For every one who has been
successful in converting her husband, there are several who not only
failed in converting their husbands, but were influenced by them to
return to the mire of sin and to enter the ranks of the unfaithful. No,
the risk is too great. The only safe course is for Christians to marry
Christians.
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