This
article has two purposes. The first is to challenge each of us to
examine why we don’t do more talking about the Lord and His things
with those we encounter. I apologize if I have made a wrong
assumption about you, but I suspect you are like me and know you
could do better. The second is to share some ideas that have helped
the Christians who gather where I live to start speaking up, pay
attention to opportunities, speak boldly, and communicate more
clearly than we had previously. The following thoughts come from
challenging discussions we have had in what our Deacons serving in
the area of evangelism have called “Evangelism Workshops.”
There
are countless reasons why Christians struggle when it comes to
evangelism, but I believe the following four categories cover most,
if not all, those reasons. They are Care, Consciousness, Courage,
and Craft. Most of the excuses we are willing to vocalize come from
the last three areas. We are willing to admit we need to pay better
attention (Consciousness) and are often scared to speak up
(Courage), and that we don’t know how or what or when to say the
things we should (Craft). But it is rare to hear someone vocalize
the most important (and most common) reason we don’t share His
things like we should: Care.
CARE:
Here is
the truth about me. I often don’t care enough about what God is
doing in the universe to get involved in His business. Along with
that, I often haven’t cared that the most important thing God is
doing in the universe involves the souls of the people walking by me
each day– souls that “God so loved” that “He gave His only begotten
Son” so that they would “not perish, but have eternal life.” Can we
please be honest about this? We can make all the excuses we want
about why so many of us remain reticent about our Lord, but what
truly is the source of our lack of Consciousness, our missing
Courage, and our lazy or haphazard Craft if not Care? Everything
follows this! In fact, it is my belief that if we care enough about
God and those made in God’s image, we will become more aware of
opportunities, find the boldness to speak or serve, and diligently
discipline ourselves toward saying things in such a way that it will
“give grace to those who hear.”
Here
are couple thoughts about how to develop greater care. Sacrifice and
service come from a realization of God’s mercy toward me
(Rom. 12:1-2).
“We love, because He first loved us”
(1 Jn.4:19).
I must think more intensely about God’s love and mercy offered me. I
must thank Him more frequently for His loving kindness. I must
enthusiastically engage my heart and mind in the prescribed
disciplines of remembering Jesus, thankful prayer, noble-minded
listening to God’s Word, probing meditation, and all the other
instructions God designed to train me to love Him and those He
loves! I understand these are activities we participate in
frequently. The problem is that many of us, somewhere along this
journey, forgot that going through the motions was designed by God
to stir our emotions.
CONSCIOUSNESS:
Jesus
had to train His disciples to be conscious of opportunities. “The
harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few”
(Matt. 10:37)
surely
would have been as uncommon a viewpoint then as it is now. When the
Lord spoke to Paul that night in Corinth and revealed, “I have many
people in this city”
(Acts 18:10)
it
surely would have been as shocking to him as it is to us. The key to
both these revelations is that the disciples who heard these words
must CARE enough about God’s “harvest” and His “people” to actually
become the “workers” and “go on speaking.” Recognizing that every
heart is soil
(Matt. 13)
and
that every aspect of the fruit of the Spirit
(Gal. 5)
contains the seeds of truth that can be planted in the lives of
those around us is a necessary realization. Once realized and
meditated on, every person, interaction, word, and deed become an
opportunity for us.
I find
it interesting that when Paul encouraged the Colossians to, “Conduct
yourself with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the
opportunity,” (Col. 4:5), he began the thought in verse 2 by
reminding them to pray, keep alert, and be thankful! So often I
forget to devote myself to prayer concerning my awareness and
opportunities. For what it’s worth, I stopped just now while writing
this to pray for you concerning this. Please pray for me and for
God’s people everywhere—that our eyes be opened, and that the Lord
send forth workers.
COURAGE:
Most of
the things I am afraid of concerning evangelism are selfish and
embarrassing to admit. I’m afraid I will no longer be liked, or
thought of as unkind, or excluded from activities or conversations,
or embarrass myself, or stick my foot in my mouth, or some other
thing that is only about me and my comfort. I feel much better about
confessing the other things I am afraid of because they genuinely
result from my concern for the other person. I worry I will push
them away, ruin an opportunity, say something wrong, or not actually
help them in some way. Some of these fears are valid, but really
only if I fail to get one of two things right. We are to be
“speaking the truth in love”
(Eph. 4:15).
If I speak the truth but am not motivated by love it will do no good
for me and could potentially hurt the one I seek to help. If I love
but fail to speak the truth, it does no good for them. This pursuit
is so freeing to me. I find great courage in this! Just think of the
incredible implication—as long as I love them and speak what I know
to be true, God is pleased, they can be helped, and I have nothing
to be afraid of!
Notice
how Scripture gives us courage to speak up. Jesus told a man who
knew very little to, “report…what great things the Lord has done for
you, and how He had mercy on you” (Mk.5:19).
God does not expect, or need for us, to speak of things we don’t
know! We need not, and should not, speculate, or add to what God has
done or said! He can accomplish His purposes with the truth that He
has already taught me, even if I have so much more truth to learn.
In
Acts 4:20
this
same principle is taught. Peter and John said, “We cannot stop
speaking about what we have seen and heard.” How encouraging! They
were not expected to speak of things they hadn’t seen or heard, and
neither are we. Look closer at your fears. If you have heard enough
truth to gain faith, then what you have heard is enough to help
another find faith. As long as we are willing to speak only what we
know to be true, and refrain from speaking of things we don’t know,
we have nothing to fear. And more importantly, God’s truth is
powerful enough to help another even if we deem it to be small or
incomplete.
CRAFT:
God is
a craftsman. Children of God should be imitators of their Father.
Paul wrote in
Colossians 4:6,
“Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt,
so that you will know how you should respond to each person.” Some
eaters just stuff their face; others take the time to collect,
measure, and season their meal to make it enjoyable. When I was
younger, I did everything in haste. As I have matured, I have seen
the value in taking my time to prepare and do things with much more
thoughtfulness. Why would we not do this when it comes to speaking
with others, or serving them on behalf of our Lord? Perhaps, it’s
because we are lazy. Perhaps, it’s because we don’t want to think
deeply about our shortcomings to know what another might need.
Perhaps, we just don’t care enough.
I have
started to practice some things lately that have helped me
communicate more clearly, more kindly, and more effectively. It
actually is something I do after encounters, not before. I try to
replay the conversation in my mind and honestly critique what I
said, how I listened, and what I could have done better. I have also
begun to be a more serious student of how Jesus spoke in various
situations to different kinds of people. I sure have a lot to learn.
But I finally care. I hope you do too.
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