A sage has said
"What you are thunders so loud I cannot hear what you say." It has ever
been true that to be an effective teacher one must practice what he or
she teaches.
"Reputation is
what men and women think of us; character is what God and Angels know of
us" (Paine, New Dictionary of Thoughts). What men and women think of us
affects our teaching effectiveness. Thus, the Lord said, "Let your light
so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your
Father which is in heaven" (Matt. 5:16). He severely censured those "who
say and do not" (Matt. 23:3). Our reputation, therefore, has a
great impact upon those we seek to teach. It will either cause them to
listen attentively and obediently, or turn them away in disgust.
Teachers cannot be too careful about their reputation. If people are
going to be induced to accept the truth, their teacher must be one who
walks in truth. Flaws in the teacher will hamper the effectiveness of
teaching, either turning people "off" or lead them to accept the flaws.
Carefulness about
reputation is even more important when we realize that just one flaw or
slip-up may damage the effectiveness of a teacher with many and for
years. "A fair reputation is a plant delicate in it's nature, and by no
means rapid in its growth. It will not shoot up in a night, like the
gourd of the prophet, but like the gourd, it may perish in a night"
(Jeremy Taylor, New Dictionary of Thoughts).
Divorcing
Reputation and Teaching
We are living in
an . age when the reputation (life-style, personal habits) of a teacher
should, in the minds of many, be divorced from the work of teaching.
This is the philosophy of humanism, where emphasis is placed upon
self-satisfaction without regard to others. It is argued that
homosexuality or any chosen life-style has no effect upon one's work of
teaching, or any other work, and should be ignored in all cases. This
philosophy is wide-spread and very influential today, even in high
places, including the church.
Just recently a
high court ruled that a school teacher, unmarried but pregnant, who had
been fired by a school board, was to be reinstated to her job and given
back pay. The school board argued that the influence of the teacher upon
her young students was not good and out of line with the moral concepts
of her students and their parents. It is a sad day when the high courts
of the land will encourage and promote immorality over morality and
decency, which are the fruit of faith.
This thinking in
religious circles, especially the church, is particularly absurd and
ridiculous in view of the Bible teaching that what the teacher is cannot
be separated from the teaching. In fact, it is the impact of what the
teacher is and teaches that caused the Holy Spirit to warn, "My
brethren, be not many teachers, knowing that we shall receive the
greater condemnation" (Jas. 3:1).
Impact of
Reputation
Besides the sins
of adultery, lying, and murder committed by David, God's king and
religious leader, the prophet in indicting him said, "Because of this
deed thou hast given great occasion to the enemies of the Lord to
blaspheme" (2 Sam. 12:14).
David repented of
his sins, and was forgiven, but the impact of sin on the part of this
religious leader upon others (giving them occasion to blaspheme) and his
own personal hurt and loss (death of the child), he could do nothing
about. This is an example of the impact of a leader's reputation when he
sins.
I have known
preachers, elders, deacons, song leaders, and class teachers falling
into fleshly and doctrinal sin. Some never returned unto the Lord, but
become complete apostates. Others repented and worked diligently at
rebuilding their reputation.
Enemies of the
Lord and "the Faith" like to point with glee to the apostasy of former
"pillars" in the church. When those "of reputation" in the church
apostatize, it always gives occasion for enemies of the Lord to
blaspheme. This is the impact of a teacher's damaged reputation.
Even those who
repent and retain their faith cannot take away this impact of their sin,
except through time and effort given to regrowing that fragile plant of
reputation which was broken. The future work of one whose repuation has
been shattered will be hindered and this is part of the impact of a
damaged reputation. Another lesson is to be presented in this series of
"Putting the Pieces Back Together", which will deal with how soon and to
what extent one who has fallen can effectively resume his former
leadership position. I do not want to infringe upon that article, but
whatever such an individual is deprived of, or made to suffer, as
consequences of his fall is a part of the impact of a damaged reputation
and, therefore, also a part of my subject.
When one thus
sins, even though he genuinely repents and is forgiven by the Lord and
brethren, he should not desire or expect brethren to immediately put him
back into a leadership role because of the impact of a damaged
reputation upon others. Enemies of the Lord will not know of the
repentance, or if they have heard, call it superficial and insincere,
and will continue to use the sin as an occasion to blaspheme. Too,
younger people in the church, when they see one quickly filling a
leadership roll after sinning so greviously, may conclude that if they
thus fell, the consequences wouldn't be so bad - that the damage done
from the standpoint of personal hurt to themselves, others, and giving
occasion for enemies to blaspheme can be just as quickly removed and
forgotten as the forgiveness of God. This, of course, just is not so.
Elders who are
aware of and greatly concerned about the impact of reputation are wise
and right when they, before restoring a penitent fallen one to a
teaching or leadership role, require time and diligence for growing
again that tender plant of reputation that was so quickly and grievously
broken.
Servants of the
Lord need to realize that when they fall into sin, fleshly or
doctrinally, they not only must have the forgiveness of God and
brethren, but must suffer certain consequences of their sin even after
being forgiven. David learned this in the loss of the child, the
influence for evil on his other children, and the tormenting knowledge
that the Lord was being blasphemed because of his sin. Truly, "A
reputation once broken may possibly be repaired, but the world will
always keep their eye on the spot where the crack was" (Josheph Hall,
New Dictionary of Thoughts). This is just part of the impact of a
leaders broken reputation.
Other Areas
Reputation is to
be highly guarded, not only in regard to fleshly sins, but even in areas
of human judgment. The Holy Spirit directs us to "provide things honest
in the sight of all men" (Rom. 12:17). "Walk in wisdom toward
them that are without, redeeming the time" (Col. 4:5).
Paul, when
collecting funds to be taken to Jerusalem for poor saints, required that
others "of reputation" among the churches be selected to travel with him
"avoiding this, that no man should blame us in this abundance which is
administered by us: providing for honest things, not only in the sight
of the Lord, but also in the sight of men" (2 Cor. 8:20-21).
There have been
instances of men, with good reputations, being found guilty of stealing
from the Lord's treasury. It is wise for two or three men to count the
collection, and the treasurer give an itemized report regularly of
income and expenditures. This would not only remove the temptation for
one to steal from the treasury, but would keep one from being suspected
or accused.
Preachers often
lay themselves open for adverse criticism by going to houses to talk
with a woman with a problem, or meeting them in the church office where
the two are alone together for a period of time. Carefulness on the part
of a preacher in taking his wife with him, or having the woman meet him
in his home instead of the office, could save one from actual sin or
reputation-destroying rumors.
Carelessness on
the part of a preacher in his dress, conduct, and speech, not only opens
the doors for temptation, but may provoke comments and accusations that
taint one's reputation for purity. "He's a ladies man" and "Just can't
keep his hands off the ladies" are comments provoked by the conduct of
some.
Too much
familiarity with certain ones - much togetherness - where all laugh
unblushingly at some shady, suggestive incident or tale, is a sign that
one might respond to "a pass" if made. Many have become guilty of sin by
traveling this path. Others, though not yielding, have been suspected of
yielding by observers of their actions. When preachers have great
temptation suddenly thrust upon them, in most cases I'm sure, some look,
work, or act on the part of the preacher gave the temptress the idea he
might respond. The preacher may have had no thought of conveying such a
message, but his careless words or actions did, never the less, leave
that impression.
There is never a
time or place where God's teacher can be "off-guard" for his reputation
as a servant of God is always at stake. And, reputation, as we have
observed, has a tremendous impact for good and evil.
The Broken
Pinion
By. H.
Butterworth
I walked through
the woodland meadows,
Where sweet the
thrushes sing,
And I found on a
bed of mosses
A bird with a
broken wing.
I healed its
wound, and each morning
It sang its old,
sweet strain;
But the bird with
a broken pinion
Never soared as
high again.
I found a young life broken
By sin's
seductive art,
And touched with
Christ-like pity.
I took him to my
heart.
He lived with a
noble purpose,
And struggled not
in vain;
But the life that
sin had stricken
Never soared as
high again.
But the bird with the broken pinion
Kept another from
the snare;
And the life that
sin had stricken
Raised another
from despair.
Each loss has its
compensation -
There is healing
for every pain;
But the bird with
the broken pinion
Never soars as
high again.
Guardian of Truth - January 5, 1984
Other Articles
Elders as Shepherds
Calvin's Choice
Baptism -- A Peripheral Issue?
A Letter to a Son Going to College
Creation or Culture
Four Days in the Life of Satan
- Caffin,
B.C. (1950), II Peter – Pulpit Commentary, H.D.M. Spence
and Joseph Exell, eds. (Grand Rapids: Eerdmans).
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