“The
LORD my God will enlighten my darkness.” (Psalms 18:28) Believe it
or not the tongue is the most used muscle in the body. In a typical week the
average person will speak enough words to fill a 500 page book. Often many
of these words spoken would fall into the category of sin. “If anyone among
you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his
own heart, this one’s religion is useless,”
(James 1:26).
The idea being expressed by James is that of controlling the tongue. “I
said, I will guard my ways, lest I sin with my tongue; I will restrain my
mouth with a muzzle,”
(Psalm 39:1).
Christians must
be very careful in how the tongue is used. If our language is out of control
then we are hypocrites and our professed Christianity is useless. Sinning
with the mouth (mouth sins) is not a trivial matter. Sins committed with the
tongue are equal in destruction to sins committed through the lust of the
flesh. Consider where Paul placed whisperers (gossipers) and backbiters
(badmouthing) in
Romans 1:28-32.
He places these in the same class with homosexuality, adultery and even
murder.
It is
disheartening to learn that some Christians fail to take seriously mouth
sins. Some seem to feel that gossip, slander, and bad-mouthing are simply
naughty little habits; nothing too serious.
Gossip (the
revealing of personal or sensational facts or rumors) has been condemned by
God for thousands of years. Under the Law of Moses we read: “You shall not
go about as a talebearer among your people” (Leviticus
19:16).
Also, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it
will eat its fruit” (Proverbs
18:21).
The prophet Jeremiah pictures a gossiper as a two-faced back shooter
(Jeremiah 9:8).
Paul writes of some women who “. . . learn to be idle, wandering about from
house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying
things which they ought not”
(1 Timothy 5:13).
Gossip is idle talk revealing intimate details of another’s life. It wounds,
it hurts, it destroys relationships and reputations, and gossip is sinful!
It cannot be justified under the guise “well it’s the truth.” The very
definition of gossip tells us that the tales we carry, even if true, is
still gossip.
Gossips are
often like stalkers. They lurk in the shadows watching, listening so they
can find out some scandalous bits of information and then tell it to as many
as will listen. “An evildoer gives heed to false lips; a liar listens
eagerly to a spiteful tongue” (Proverbs
17:4).
Friends have become enemies, family relationships broken and churches have
split because of gossiping tongues. “A perverse man sows strife, and a
whisperer separates the best of friends”
(Proverbs 16:28).
The irony of
all this is a Gossip will often appear to be a friend and flatter us in
order to learn some piece of information to tell. “He who goes about as a
talebearer reveals secrets; therefore do not associate with one who flatters
with his lips” (Proverbs
20:19).
However, gossip
is not the only mouth sin that proves our lives are out of control and our
Christianity is a fraud. Lying is another such sin! God says that a lying
tongue is like a deadly weapon. “A man who bears false witness against his
neighbor is like a club, a sword, and a sharp arrow” (Proverbs
25:18).
Furthermore, God hates a “lying tongue” (Proverbs
6:17).
Lying is
sternly forbidden under the gospel of Christ. “Therefore, putting away
lying, let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor, for we are members
of one another”
(Ephesians 4:25).
And the New Testament is equally clear as to the final address of all liars.
“. . . all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and
brimstone, which is the second death”
(Revelation 21:8).
Occasionally
people behave as if they do not know what a lie is. A lie is asserting
something known or believed to be untrue with the intent to deceive.
But a lie is
also an untrue statement that one may or may not believe to be true. Let’s
see if we can clear this up. One might know he is telling a falsehood and
that is a lie. But a lie also might be passing on some false information I
might genuinely believe to be true. For example, I might have been told that
“Ralph” is guilty of adultery. I might have confidence in the source who
told me that Ralph was an adulterer. As a result I genuinely believe that
Ralph committed adultery against his wife and I tell you: “I know for a fact
Ralph committed adultery.” However, in truth Ralph did not commit adultery—I
lied! This is why it becomes imperative that we have our “facts” right
before proceeding. “. . . by the mouth of two or three witnesses the matter
shall be established”
(Deuteronomy 19:15).
“By the mouth of two or three witnesses every word shall be established”
(2 Corinthians 13:1).
“Do not receive an accusation against an elder except from two or three
witnesses”
(1 Timothy 5:19).
Also a lie
would be giving misleading or incomplete information. Information that might
in fact be true but not complete. For example I might have a car for sale
and I don’t tell you about a mechanical problem I know it has. I withhold
from you vital information under the mask of “buyer beware.” I lied! I led
you to believe something that was false!
Another mouth
sin is filthy language. “But now you yourselves are to put off all these:
anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth”
(Colossians 3:8).
This kind of mouth sin can be subdivided into two groups, and both are
equally sinful.
One is
profanity. Profanity is a form of the word profane, which means “to treat
something sacred with abuse, irreverence or contempt.” It would be what we
normally call taking the name of the Lord in vain. I will not be giving
written illustrations of this but I think we understand how this might be
done. Anytime we use the name of Jesus, or God or anything sacred in a way
other than holy is profane.
Another would
be corrupt language
(Ephesians 4:29).
Corrupt speech is speech that is disrespectful or dishonoring. Telling
someone he/she is fat, ugly, stupid or any other humiliating term. But it
would also include speech that is vulgar, rude or offensive. This is usually
done by referencing bodily functions, or what might be called “bathroom
humor.”
Mouth sins are
serious because they actually reveal a deeper problem—a heart problem.
Vulgar words reveal a vulgar heart; “For out of the abundance of the heart
the mouth speaks”
(Matthew 12:34).
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Why No Instruments of Music?
Seven Faces of
Failure
A Matter of Choice
The Problem With Creeds
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