When
brethren begin to try to study an issue, the first question should not
be, "Are you going to make this a test of fellowship?" There's a time
when fellowship may need to be considered, depending on the issue at
hand, but it shouldn't be the first order of business. The first order
should be to lovingly work together and learn truth. That often takes
time, and brethren are typically in different places of growth and
understanding. As long as this process can be maintained without being
ugly to each other
(Eph. 4:32),
brethren can generally get along pretty well. Patience, longsuffering,
and love are staples of a growing relationship that fosters a better
knowledge of truth and understanding
(Eph. 4:1-3).
My
experience generally has been that fellowship issues tend to work
themselves out without being forced. Yet there are questions to
consider. Is one being divisive and causing strife? Is one refusing to
study while dogmatically holding a view? Is one attempting to go behind
the backs of others (e.g., the shepherds) in order to teach a pet idea?
These are always dangers that need to be avoided and handled. In these
cases, swift action is in order
(Rom. 16:17; Titus 1:9).
However,
when an issue first arises, and brethren genuinely want to work together
in love, the fellowship question is a distant second. Why bring it up
first? Why not instead simply seek to study, pray, and grow together? In
time, the fellowship between brethren may indeed grow much closer, and
this is a wonderful outcome.
Never look
for excuses to divide and isolate; always pursue peace and love.
Divisions happen, but let it never be because we have failed to do all
within our abilities to bring others together first.
Other
Articles by Doy Moyer
Is It Wise and Good to Begin Drinking Alcohol?
Jesus Emptied Himself: A Basic Approach
"As Long as It Does not Harm Anyone"
Pathetic Dust or a Living Hope
You May be Surprised to Learn
Moralizing Over the Gospel
Alcohol and Wisdom
Brotherly Love
The Logic of Authority
Was Jesus Literally
Forsaken?
Baptism and the Blood
The Problem With Creeds
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