Questions to Ask When We Complain      
 

by Doy Moyer

 

When we complain about others, perhaps we should ask ourselves if we are projecting a bit. That is, are we guilty of the attitudes and errors we accuse others of having? I have often wondered about the older brother in the parable of the prodigal. With all that he accused his brother of, then claiming he had never neglected his father’s commands, makes me wonder if such a spirit protests too much and reveals a hypocritical guilt. At the least he showed an attitude of entitlement and lack of mercy. But then that was Jesus’ point. If we accuse others of being cold and unfeeling, is it possible that has been our problem? If we accuse others of being hypocritical, pharisaical, and legalistic, has that been our error? If we complain that other Christians are unspiritual or lack zeal, have we been that way? If we charge others with arrogance because they disagree with us, are we being arrogant? Do we condemn in others what we applaud in ourselves or our associates? I’m not saying it must be this way, but it is important that we check ourselves lest we find ourselves in this passage: “Therefore you have no excuse, everyone of you who passes judgment, for in that which you judge another, you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things” (Rom 2:1).          Other Articles by Doy Moyer Jesus Emptied Himself a Basic Approach "As Long as It Does not Harm Anyone" Pathetic Dust or a Living Hope You May be Surprised to Learn Moralizing Over the Gospel Alcohol and Wisdom Brotherly Love The Logic of Authority Was Jesus Literally Forsaken? Baptism and the Blood The Problem With Creeds     For Past Auburn Beacons go to: www.aubeacon.com/Bulletins.htm   Anyone can join the mailing list for the Auburn Beacon! Send your request to: larryrouse@aubeacon.com