The Bible is
clear in teaching that we are made in the image of God, (Gen 1:26).
Therefore, to suggest we are born sinful, is to say that God is sinful. We
know that God is sinless, therefore, when we begin our journey in this world
we are safe (spiritually), due to our sinless condition. We remain safe
until we sin. When this occurs we are separated from the presence of God.
The Bible teaches that all have sinned, (Rom 3:23). The question this
article will look at is, at what point do people become accountable to God
for their actions? We often speak of this as "the age of accountability". At
what age does the safe child become a human at the verge of committing an
act that will cause his or her spiritual death?
Can it be
that one day a person could do a thing which would have no spiritual
ramifications, and the next day do the same thing, and die spiritually? What
are the variables that will determine whether an act is sinful or merely
child's play? I have found that there is no easy or quick answer to the
above questions. There is no set age at which it can be determined that an
individual is accountable for his actions. In fact there are some who,
regardless of age, never become accountable for their actions.
As a parent,
the answer to these questions becomes more urgent. I have talked to several
parent's about this subject in the past, and they share a real concern, as
to when and how to determine the "age of accountability". Unfortunately,
there has been very little written that is helpful concerning this
subject. I will approach the subject by looking at what I consider to be
the variables, applicable to this discussion. They are; 1. The emotions, 2.
Knowledge, 3. Motivation, 4. The conscience.
Emotions
The first
step in understanding our accountability to God for our actions is to
develop some understanding of emotions. We, like our Creator have the
ability to experience emotions. John 3:16, teaches that God "loves",
Psa 5:5 6, indicates God "hates", and Deut 32:22 indicates God
can be angry.
There is some
difficulty in describing God as a being Who experience's emotions, because
of God's perfect nature. We must be careful to understand the use of
anthropopathism's when describing God. There are times in scripture when
certain passions are ascribed to God, but only as a matter of
accommodation. God's "emotional state" (I'm using that in an accommodative
manner), is constant, predictable, and is perfectly qualified by His
omniscience, which eliminates spontaneity, that we as humans experience. We,
like our Creator, have the capacity to "feel", the passion of love, hate,
and anger. The difference, (and it is an enormous difference), is that our
knowledge does not perfectly qualify the way we feel about things.
A definition
of human emotion is; "an affective state of consciousness in which joy,
sorrow, fear, hate, or the like, is experienced, as distinguished from
cognitive and volitional states of consciousness: usually accompanied by
certain physiological changes, as increased heartbeat, respiration, or the
like, and often overt manifestation, as crying, shaking, or laughing". This
definition suggests that emotional states often can and will displace our
volitional state. This means that our emotions can completely remove us from
the capacity to act as we “will" to act. I disagree with that definition. I
believe that since we are made in the image of God, there always remains the
possibility, (even under the most severe emotional strain), to act freely.
The bible teaches us that we are not to be mere creatures of passion. Our
emotional state is to be controlled. Several of the original commandments
dealt with the necessity to keep passions under control. We are instructed
not to murder, commit adultery, steal, or covet our neighbor's possessions.
Therefore, it is evident that part of maturing to the "age of
accountability" has to do with being accountable for acting on passions that
could have been controlled.
Anyone who
has ever watched little children play has seen how strongly their behavior
is dictated by their emotions. One child might desire the toy of another
child. He may even take by force, the toy from the other child. Although
these are actions that latter in life will be coveting and stealing, the
child has not sinned. The child has not sinned because his knowledge is
limited. Purely passionate responses are expected with children (though they
must be corrected through discipline).
Considering
emotions; someone has said that one's emotional state is the sum total of
all of his or her experience's coupled with the manner in which a situation
is perceived. An illustration of this is seen in the emotional state of one
who is giving a speech before a large group for the first time. Because
this person's experience is limited, there will normally be a great deal of
anxiety which will manifest itself with increased heart rate, sweaty palms,
shaking, and a dry mouth. Most people will perceive such a situation as an
occasion to fear and avoid. But after a person develops experience in
speaking publicly, the perception of the event begins to change. The
physical reaction will be one of control rather than being controlled by the
emotion of fear. Thus, the experience gained coupled with the new perception
dictates the emotional state.
Continuing
with the above illustration, who is it that has a greater responsibility to
deliver a more polished, clear, and effective speech? The more experienced
individual has the greater responsibility. He has had the opportunity to
develop the emotional control necessary in delivering a more effective
speech. This person is in a since accountable for the outcome of his speech.
The person speaking for the first time is really not accountable in terms of
his being ineffective. I believe this illustrates the role emotional
maturity plays in one's accountability spiritually.
Children who
take toy's and desire someone else's things have not sinned, because they
have not developed the necessary emotional control to bring about
accountability. When we consider one's accountability for actions, we must
consider the emotional maturity of that individual. Because of this factor,
it is impossible to determine a precise age that fits all people in all
situations. People mature at different rates, emotionally.
We've already
touched on another variable in this equation; knowledge. When we speak of
experience and it's effect on one's emotional state, we are really talking
of knowledge. Knowledge is defined as "acquaintance with facts, truths, or
principles, as from study or investigation; general erudication". There is
knowledge we gain from experience (science), and knowledge gained thru
contemplation (philosophy). There is particular knowledge that is able to
save our souls, (2 Tim 3:15). Hopefully, children will be taught the
scriptures and develop that necessary knowledge.
Attaining a
certain level of scriptural knowledge does not indicate that one has reached
the "age of accountability." Many children can tell the story of the gospel
and even cite verses concerning salvation. Young children can often
understand that obedience is essential to eternal life. Yet, simply having
this information does not make a person accountable for his actions. In
order for one to be accountable for the knowledge they possess of right and
wrong there must be the capacity to reason correctly.
I'm speaking
of one's ability to look at acquired facts and other various information,
and competently arrive at conclusions based upon this information. This has
to do with the area of knowledge known as contemplation. A child can recite
facts regarding the gospel, but cannot conclude that envying (for example),
will constitute the breaking of God's law and cause an unrepentant soul to
be lost for ever and ever. A person develops reasoning skills throughout
life. It is when one matures to the point of reason that he or she is
accountable for the knowledge they have acquired. In fact the Catholics
refer to the "age of accountability" as the "age of reason".
Before I move
into the next variable, which is motive, let me say something about moral
knowledge. It is not necessary that a person be taught the scripture's in
order to have an understanding of moral right and wrong. If that were the
case, all those who have never heard the scriptures, do not have the
capability to know right from wrong, and therefore cannot sin. This we know
to be incorrect because as Paul said in Acts 17:30, God commands all
men, everywhere to repent. Well, if a man in the deepest jungle of Africa
has never heard of God, what does he have to repent of? Quite simply, if he
has transgressed God's law, he is lost. Stealing and murder are the same
thing in any culture, that is they are moral transgressions.
Although
positive law requires special revelation, i.e., how to worship, the plan of
salvation, etc., moral law does not require special revelation. The Gentiles
who were without the Law of Moses, had a law unto themselves in which they
were accountable. They could know what was morally right and what was
morally wrong. Romans 2:15 teaches that even without knowledge of
any written law, we have a law that is within our hearts.
So then,
concerning knowledge, little children may acquire it, yet not be accountable
unto it. Knowledge must be coupled with the ability to reason, emotional
maturity, and as we will now see, be guided by our motives, in order for one
to be accountable for actions.
Motives and Conscience
We are driven
by our motives. If someone want's to quit smoking they must develop the
motivation to quit smoking. No person has continued the habit of smoking
against his will. Motive and will are synonymous, at least so far as I can
tell. Motive defined is; "something that prompts a person to act in a
certain way or that determines volition; incentive". A person who has not
reached the point in his life where he is able to direct his motive or will,
is not yet accountable for actions. It seems that a very important question
in this discussion is, how are motives developed?
The
foundation for our motives is our passion and our knowledge. A child can
understand the command "Stay out of the cookie jar!" A child can understand
the threat of punishment for violating this command. Therefore, the child is
accountable for disobeying the command, and is justly punished. A child may
desire a cookie, yet, that desire can be overcome by the fear of
punishment. His motive is thereby directed by both emotional (desire), as
well as knowledge of the punishment. The child might choose to disobey and
eat the cookie. If that is the case, the decision is made based upon the
desire for the cookie, and in spite of the punishment that is sure to come.
What ever the
child does, he does because he wants to do it. A little baby, who does not
understand language or the threat of punishment, cannot be held accountable
for eating that which is forbidden. Such a child is incapable of controlling
his passion for food. As an infant grows into a toddler he develops the
capacity to make the choice to obey the cookie command or disregard it. The
child then becomes accountable to his parents for his actions. I believe
this serves to illustrate the role of will or motive in determining
accountability. When a person has spent years developing emotionally, and
has learned what is right morally and what is wrong morally, they then have
the necessary requirements of a free moral agent.
Let's look at
the example of sexual sin. A young male becomes aware of his sexual drive.
This young male may be tempted with some form of homosexual activity. He
would know immediately that this is unnatural,(according to Romans Chapter
one). I believe that he would know that it would be wrong morally to engage
in such activity (he would have to violate his conscience). What this young
male does is going to be determined by his motive. He is like the child
eyeing the cookie jar. The same variables exist, passion and knowledge, only
now the stakes have become higher. The punishment is spiritual death. This
person does not have to commit the sin, although the choice is before him.
He has had a lifetime developing emotionally, while acquiring knowledge and
now he must choose between passionate lust, or follow the moral light. More
simply put, a choice exists between good and evil. A person does not have to
understand that a reward is available for sinlessness in order to develop
motive to overcome sin. The knowledge of the unnatural act of homosexual
activity, which can be perceived in nature, is enough of a deterrent to
bring about accountability. The same would be true with any sexual sin,
theft, lying, murder, etc. One must violate his moral conscience in order to
commit one of these acts.
Therefore, in
order for one to be accountable for sin, he must have reached the point in
life, in which he can choose between moral good and evil. The very same
choice was before Eve. She wanted to be like God, yet she knew that to eat
of the tree of knowledge of good and evil would be in violation of God's
positive law. She had the power to eat or not eat. In her judgment, the
desire to be like God was greater than the prohibition made by God. She did
exactly what she wanted to do. She had the maturity to control her emotional
desires and the ability to reason as to the consequences of violating God's
prohibition. She knew that it would be displeasing to God. In order to sin
she had to violate God's command, and go against her own conscience. In
violating her conscience and breaking God's law she encountered guilt.
It is my
belief that at the point in which one becomes consciously aware of moral
good and evil they are accountable for actions. This can occur at different
ages. The conscience will develop at a faster rate for those who have been
given moral guidance all of their life. I do not believe that one will fully
understand they have reached the age of accountability until they experience
the guilt that always follows the violation of ones conscience. This is the
law that is written on our hearts, (Rom 2:15).
This guilt is
not the same thing as shame. Shame can be experienced by one who is not yet
accountable. As parents and teachers we must see the difference between
shame and the remorse that proceeds from guilt. A child that has done
something that should not have been done, but only feels shame, is not
accountable for actions and should not be encouraged to be baptized (or
washed of sins that do not exist).
In Conclusion
What is the
"age of accountability"? It is probably an idiom that needs to be thrown out
of our vocabulary. The term "age" seems only to confuse an already complex
question. What need's to be considered is, at what point one has matured to
the level that they will be accountable for their actions. The physical age
of an individual is not entirely relative to the discussion. As a parent,
what I have learned from this study is a few basic principles that will help
me in instilling in my children the right motives.
It is
inevitable that both of my sons will at some point sin. When they experience
the guilt of that sin, they need to know what to do about it. In order for
them to make a sound decision to obey the gospel, they must have a thorough
understanding of the reward for doing right and the punishment for doing
evil. When the time comes, the decision will be theirs. They will face a
decision of monumentous proportion. At some point the devil will come for
their souls. Like Adam and Eve, and all but One after them, they will do
something which is opposed to the will of God.
When they
first feel the pains of guilt I hope they will be motivated to accept the
gift of salvation. In one sense, I feel helpless as a father because my
desire is to protect and shelter them from all that would cause them harm.
Thankfully, God feels the same way, and has done everything that I cannot,
to provide a way of escape for my children. One thing is for sure, they will
do precisely what they want to do. |