"Pity the
Smith family. Poor things, they have to keep the preacher every time the
church plans a meeting. And Christians are always stopping in at their
place. And they are about the only people in the church that ever invite
people in after services. I just wouldn't put up with it myself.
..."
Spare your
pity! The Smiths are a richly blessed family. Oh, occasionally they
entertain some ungrateful scoundrel, but the blessings of hospitality
far outweigh the problems.
The Bible
speaks of some wonderfully blessed people along these lines. For
instance, we do not pity Mary and Martha for "having" to have Jesus in
their home; we pity those who, not wanting Jesus, were deprived of this
blessing. We do not pity Mary the mother of John Mark, in whose home
"many were gathered together praying;"
we pity
those homes where Christians never assemble for Bible study and prayer.
We do not pity Philemon who was to prepare Paul a lodging; we would love
to have Paul as a guest in our home. Christians need to learn the joy
and blessings which come to those who are hospitable.
"We are
hospitable," someone says; "we often have friends from church in our
home for get-togethers and parties." That's fine! We encourage this!
But Bible hospitality goes beyond having
friends
in for an evening which is at least partially for our own
selfish
enjoyment.
"I
was a stranger, and ye took me in,"
Jesus will
say in the judgment
(Matt. 25:35).
Gaius was
commended for helping "brethren" and "strangers" who were traveling for
the Lord's name's sake, and was told by John,
"whom if thou bring forward on their journey after a
godly sort, thou shalt do well"
(3 John 5-7).
Further, the Bible teaches that we become partakers in
evil
deeds of
false
teachers when we receive them into our houses
(2 John 9-11).
But does this not infer that we become partakers in the
good
deeds of
faithful
teachers when we show them hospitality?
A Christian
will want to make friends with other Christians, and consequently will
plan enjoyable evenings with close friends in his home. But the
hospitable Christian will also use his home for conducting Bible
classes, entertaining visiting preachers and other workers for the Lord,
getting acquainted with newcomers in the church, comforting the
bereaved and troubled, and for every good work.
Our homes
are blessings from the Lord. We must not use them selfishly, but rather
to His glory. The result will be an occasional scratch on a chair, or a
stain on the carpet, or a chipped glass — really a small price to pay,
though, for the warmth that comes to the home from new friends, good
influences, rich Bible discussions, participation in the Lord's work,
and the satisfaction of knowing that one is pleasing God and preparing
himself for eternity. No, it's not the Smiths whom we pity; it's those
who do not know the joy of hospitality.
Other Articles by Bill Hall
Happiness in Marriage
Attitudes Towards the Weak
Two Men Disagree With the Preacher
Young Lady Marry A Christian
No Fleshly Incentives
A Godly Man in Wicked Surroundings
Truth's Consequences