Philemon
wasn’t partial—he loved
all
the saints
(Philemon 1:5).
And he
didn’t just feel it; he demonstrated it—“for we have great joy and
consolation in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been
refreshed by you, brother”
(Philemon 1:7).
Other
Christians in the New Testament were commended for the same thing:
“…after I heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your
love for all the saints,
do not cease to give thanks for you…”
(Ephesians 1:15-16).
“We give thanks…since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your
love for all the saints”
(Colossians 1:3-4).
“…for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another; and indeed
you do so toward
all the brethren
who are in all Macedonia…”
(1 Thessalonians 4:9-10).
Clearly,
then, this is a point of emphasis in the New Testament. Do good to all
the saints
(Galatians 6:9-10)
—not just
family members, not just friends, and not just those you perceive to be
the strongest.
Here, then,
are some ways you can show love to all the saints in your local
congregation.
Nothing
wrong with sitting in the same pew or chair at every worship service,
but don’t talk to the same people every time. Before and after worship
services, move around and talk to different people. Get to know
everyone. They need you, and you need them
(Romans 1:12).
Don’t
think, though, that this can all be accomplished at the place you meet
for worship. After all, you are there primarily to worship God. Invite
people into your home; in fact, make it your aim to have everyone in the
congregation at some time or another. You’ll get to know them a whole
lot better in your home than you will at services. It’s awful hard to
“warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak”
(1 Thessalonians 5:14)
when you
don’t even know who they are. Hospitality is a wonderful way to fill the
needs of your brethren (and them fill yours), not to mention that it’s a
command
(1 Peter 4:9).
Visit those
saints who don’t have as much contact with their brethren—the sick, the
shut-ins, the elderly, etc.
(Matthew 25:31-46; James 1:27).
That’s not
the preacher’s job or the elders’ job; it’s yours. These folks have
special needs, and unless you have a real good excuse, it’s your
responsibility to fill them.
“Rejoice
with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep”
(Romans 12:15).
Don’t be envious when good things happen to your brethren; instead, let
them know just how happy you are for them. And in bad times, sympathize
with them. Let them know you’re there for them, that you’ll do anything
in your power to help them.
Use all the
means you have at your fingertips to encourage all the saints—get well
cards, phone, email, Facebook, etc. Just don’t convince yourself that
this is the best way, because in most cases, nothing beats the
opportunity to “speak face to face”
(3 John 14).
Commend
your brethren on a job well done. Such commendations are found
throughout the New Testament, so don’t ever question their
effectiveness. Again, don’t be partial; include men, women, and children
in these commendations. Folks who excel spiritually need to be commended
so that they “do not grow weary while doing good”
(Galatians 6:9).
“And may the Lord make you increase and abound in love to
one another and to all, just as we do to you”
(1 Thessalonians 3:12).
“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you
have love for one another”
(John 13:35).
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